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2019-01-20

米国は弱さに非寛容。メイクは「彼女の選択」

成長した女性男性少女少年のように振る舞うことは仕事での信頼性を損なう

と言うのがアメリカの主流の印象。少なくともネット映画の中では

例えば、女の子のように声を高く喋る方々に対しては、

How many of us gain psychological safety while sacrificing credibility at work


2. To stave off assertive input from others.

When a woman makes herself sound younger and more vulnerable, she is broadcasting to her colleagues, direct reports, clients and supervisors that she can't or won't defend herself, so don't be tough on her.

Who wants to be the big bad wolf who makes a woman cry at work?

She is, in essence, protecting herself from challenging conversations, negative performance feedback, and difficult news -- all of which every leader needs to engage in in order to grow and develop.

By shielding herself from the tough stuff in the short-term, she is putting up a barrier to her long-term career development.


[引用]

https://www.google.co.jp/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/speak-easy/201708/why-some-grown-women-sound-girls%3famp

と、「自分自身女の子のように弱く見せることで、厳しさや批判から身を守り、仕事での信頼性犠牲にし、自らキャリア開発障壁を作っている 」と バッサリ

なんでもプライベートボイストレーナーなる理想的な声の出し方をトレー二ングする職業の方々おり、それなりに需要があるそうな

女でこれなら、男で声が高いヤツは射殺されるんじゃないだろうか?ミックスボイスとか両声類とか言ってる場合じゃねぇわな、本題

じゃあ童顔メイク(目を大きく見せたり敢えて幼く可愛く見せるメイク)はしないの?

・するみたいよ

ドールメイク(ドーリーメイク)

幼さ(=弱さ)はダメなのにドールメイクするの?

バービー基準なのかお目目大きくでもなんか強そう

最大限に日本風なツーサイドのロリキャラ(ピンクベース)が元ネタ※でもこんな感じ

■Babydoll Sucker Punch - Makeup Tutorial
https://youtu.be/kyMzbrJVYpw
https://youtu.be/PMyxqtTj6AE


元ネタ・・・童顔丸顔のエミリー・ブラウニングの出演の米映画、「Sucker Punch」(邦題エンジェルウォーズ) 寺田克也も参加している https://youtu.be/GVVYB8gaSqc

日本風ではなく、完全に日本文脈のkawaii メイクしている人もいるが、レアキャラ日本オタク

米国発で適当動画が見つからなかったので他のところから

Japanese Makeup Look, Haul and Chat
https://youtu.be/Yj792rF713w

■Cute and 'tare (droopy)' eyes tutorial ☆彡
https://youtu.be/Y1GtGfo1TPw

童顔ガー以前にメイクをするしない@職場

メイクが大好きで楽しんでいる人、

勝手圧力を感じてメイクを嫌々している人、

現実問題としてノーメイクキャリアに影響が出ると感じるのでメイクする人/それでも敢えて無視してノーメイクの人、

マネージャー社長だけどキャリアに影響していないとノーメイクの人

童顔ガー以前にメイクするもしないも、

It’s her choice” だそうな

そりゃそうだ

(追記:「彼女選択」に言葉をもう少し足してみた anond:20190121031924)


日本は弱さに寛容ですよ
anond:20190123085427

2019-01-19

i think nobody wants talk to me...

i dont know why...

but i think japanese really hate english.................

2018-08-01

I want to make myself happy.

Everyone wants to make themselves happy.

That’s why you’re here.

No matter what challenges await you, that feeling doesn’t change.

I don’t want to give up anymore.

That’s all.

From the line of "Wake Up Girls"

2018-07-23

世の中には猫ソングほど犬ソングは多くないのか?

自分ウォークマンにはJ-POPボカロアニソン童謡洋楽懐メロと様々なジャンルの曲を入れているが、ある日いつものように聴いていてふと気付いた。

ソングに比べて犬ソングのなんと少ないことか。

試しに書き出してみた。

ソング

・Everybody Wants To Be A Cat(Disney)

嗚呼、素晴らしきニャン生(Nem)

・或る化け猫恋物語(Nem)

黒猫女子(すこっぷ)

黒猫ダンス(横山だいすけ小野あつこ)

黒猫タンゴ(皆川おさむ)

・こねこねんね(今井ゆうぞうはいだしょうこ)

・こねこパン屋さん(神崎ゆう子)

・前夜祭の黒猫(mayuko)

地球ネコ(今井ゆうぞうはいだしょうこ)

・ドラネコロックンロール(坂田おさむ)

ねこねこしゃんしゃん(ふうかワンワン・うーたん)

・ノラネコ(otetsu)

・ぼくの目は猫の目(忌野清志郎)

迷子猫奴(mayuko)

・まねきネコネコ(杉田あきひろつのだりょうこ)

・夢猫の子守唄(西村知美)

かたや犬ソング

ペス、いっしょにきもちよくなろうね(牢獄P)

・おさんぽクンクン(横山だいすけ三谷たくみ)

これだけだ。

特に狙ったわけではない。やはり猫の方が歌にしやすいのだろうか?

2018-06-03

2018-02-11

き  み  が  あ よ  お わ

kiss me, girl, and your old one

 ち よ に   い い や ち  よ   に

a tip you need, it is years till you're near this

さ    ざ で  い  し の

sound of the dead "will she know

し  わ  お と な  り  て

she wants all to not really take

こ  け   の む  う  す う ま あ で

cold caves know moon is with whom mad and dead"

訳:僕にキスしたら君のその古臭いジョークにも

(サヨナラの)キスをしておやりよ

君に必要忠告をあげよう 死者たちのこの声

君に届くまで何年もかかったんだよ

国家ってのは本当に奪ってはならないものを欲しがるけど

そのことに気がつく日が来るんだろうか?

冷たい洞窟だって知ってるんだ

戦争で傷つき)気が狂ったり死んでしまった人たちを

お月さまはいつも見てるってことを」

2018-01-22

anond:20180121020739

ああ、音楽ゴミくんにとっては君が代けが音楽なんだ。

キ  ミ  ガ  ア  ヨ オ ワ

kiss me, girl, and your old one(僕にキスしたら君のその古臭いジョークにも(サヨナラの)キスをしておやりよ)

 チ ヨ  二 

a tip you need, (君に必要忠告をあげよう)

イ イ ヤ チ ヨ   二

it is years till you're near this(君に届くまでに何年もかかったんだよ、)

サ   ザ  レ  

sound of the dead (死者たちのこの声が届くまでに)

イ  シ  ノ

will she know(気がつく日が来るんだろうか?)

イ  ワ  オ ト ナ  リ   テ

she wants all to not really take国家ってのは本当に奪ってはならないものを欲しがるってことを)

コ  ケ  ノ 

cold caves know(冷たい洞窟だって知ってるんだ)

ム ウ ス ウ  マ ア  デ

moon is with whom mad and dead(戦争で傷つき、気が狂ったり死んでしまった人たちを月はいつも見てるってことを)

2018-01-02

40代オジサンサラリーマン 2018年抱負

抱負

2017年末とくらべて2018年末の自分10%成長する

-スキルを増やすために何をすればいいかを考える

-新しいスキルが体得出来るビジネスを始める(今年は稼げなくても良い)

WANTS

体幹を鍛える

英会話勉強 - 週2日通

フランス語はじめる - フランス人の友人に月2で会う

趣味イベントを年間12回以上開催する(主催者として)

時間の使い方

20%実務を効率化することを考える[34時間]

30%実務[51時間]

5%語学 [8時間]

30%寝る[51時間]

15%余暇[24時間]

日曜はしっかり休む

場所

海外都市1 月1(営業先)

海外都市2 年4(営業先)

国内都市1 年4(余暇

国内都市2 年1(本社

海外都市3、海外都市4

いまの恋人の、さらにその友人たちと自分が仲良くなる

彼らと過ごす時間を増やす - 彼らの価値観理解する

2017-12-21

Ossan wants kanojyo

どうもオッサンだよ!

みんなが大嫌いなキモくて金のないアラホーおっさん中年高齢童貞です。よく分かりませんが、会ったこともない見知らぬ広告会社のやりチンとビッチに蔑まれているようで、世間をお騒がせしまして、大変申し訳ありません。師走年の瀬かいこの頃、クリスマスを迎え、聖夜を性夜として消費することに忙しい皆さまの目に存在が映ってしまたことを謝罪申し上げます

さて、それはそれとして、彼女ほしいので募集いたします。

当方、廃スペ男なので、お見知りおきをばよろしくお願いいたします。

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当方プロフ

 ・人類男性です。

 ・主要言語は、日本語英語生活に困らない程度は使用可。他は辞書使えば読める程度です。

 ・西日本在住です。

 ・院卒で、大学院在学中です。

 ・非正規仕事で月収12万円程度を稼いで細々と暮らしております

 ・太っておりますが、明るいです。

 ・ここに書き込んだことで自明なように、ネットユーザです。重課金ゲーマーではありません。

 ・雑ですが炊事洗濯家事は一通りできます

 ・一度だけ、一年弱、彼女いたことあります。フラれました。

 ・趣味ネット以外だと読書映画すきです。

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【求める女性像】

 ・人類女性

 ・日本語または英語話者

 ・国内在住

 ・社会的互助としての結婚ということにある程度理解をもてる方

 ・容姿身長体重などはお互いさまだと思える方

 ・しばらくのメール往復の後、たがいの身元を明かせる方

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それではご連絡をお待ちしております

ossanwantskanojyoあとまーくじーめいるまで、よろしくお願いいたします。

末筆ながら皆様におかれましては良い年末年始を迎えられますよう、御祈念申し上げます

2017-10-14

Two years have passed since I moved to a developed country

ほらよ。

https://anond.hatelabo.jp/20171014071350

I am working as an engineer in the IT area, but I managed to hold it for some 2 years.

I do not have confidence yet, and I feel even more confident about my confidence for the rest of my life, the excellence of my colleague.

If I do not desperately do it I am working everyday with feelings that it is not amusing even if I receive a notification outside the fighting strength.

Still, in Japan, I think that Japan has much better skill than CTO in that area.

In the future I thought that if I could return to Japan and contribute to the Japanese society, Japan that is visible from the outside is bad.

What is bad, first aspect of politics.

Politics

The point that democracy is not fully functioning against the fact that there are stupid citizens who blind the LDP, such as Abe's descent.

That other party is also not good. Hope party? What is that lady like that disciple of Ru Ooshiba? Rou Koike?

The more you do not have it, the stupid will be clouded in katakana and psychology. You idiots, you guys say this. I love Katakana anyway, I love psychology, 100% I do not say big things. What is Y's Spending. Do not fix what you normally call katakana.

Since the political system is over in the first place, I think that it is the cause of failure of not receiving popular people, especially elderly people, only short-term and useless policies absolutely. So we will not attack only the LDP.

It is too fatal that politics is not rational and it is impossible to include the policy that should be done. Because it ends with poppiness if I can not vote.

Unfortunately, the trend of changing the political system probably will not happen if it fails.

In recent decades, politicians have accelerated the declining birthrate and aging society to a distortion with outlook on the preferential treatment for the elderly + measures against the declining birthrate.

The decline in Japan's birthrate and birthrate is partly spontaneous, but the world's low birthrate and aging society is not caused by natural phenomena.

There is not any future that putting all the energy to surrender the tax to the old man by tax free over medical care. It was already late when we were discussing whether a large amount of tax would be used due to politicians' old elderly votes or ten years ago, so it was already late, we have not corrected the orbit again so far I am going to politate on the same route.

An aged politician does not think about a short-circuiting policy, the future. Citizens delight in the immediate economic policy.

Grass grows now, as the nation 's collapse has become a reality.

If the declining birthrate and the aging population advanced at this pace as it is, the Japanese boat will sink in 20 years. Two years ago I thought I would have 30 years.

I gave up completely to Japan's politics. Defeated entertainment is not funny. I'm saying that it is japanese, but I do not dislike it. To give up means to accept failures.

Next is the aspect of business.

business

Did you have a business anywhere other than bidding? I do not have pieces of creativity. There is no further ethics.

What is it, Mercari or DeNA or moral business or something is a social sin. I just confused society, did not I? The country and the country came to know not ethics.

Ethics of the Japanese are lower than the Japanese think.

Although I derail for a while, accident happens in front of my eyes, the idiots who take pictures with smaho are not minorities at all Nationality is bad.

Even though there is service only where money is involved, do not say hospitality as if it were the national character of the Japanese.

It is not a minority to be a completely individualist society and people are troubled and help people.

At this time new creative business is born from one to the next. It is at an unthinkable pace in Japan. Of course, there are many doubtful businesses as to whether it will become money, but it is better than Japanese society where there is no brain except copying the business of another company at all.

So almost no company wants to work in Japan.

And the fall of the company. Almost no international competitiveness. Even large corporations will be crushed.

With this aging birthrate and declining birthrate, you can not contribute even to domestic demand with the elderly who can not see the future if it is full of old people.

There are no people with a declining birthrate. It seems that young people are supporting the LDP by thinking positively as being a seller's market completely.

There is only one person who is not merely a policy of an aging population declining birthrate. Your future is pitch dark.

Were I so stupid as to whom I thought of going back to Japan? What? It is certain that at least the field of view and experience has been much lower than it was now.

If I see myself two years ago, I feel mercy only now.

Indeed it is visible that it will collapse in another few decades Indeed it will not be possible to return to Japan.

Why do I have to board a sinking ship? Parents are the only team to surrender, only you are to protect yourself.

Originally I decided not to make children from the uncertain future of society, not myself. I think that choice was right.

Politician Now, if you are not stupid, it means that you are doing intentional bankruptcy activities.

It is good that you are only interested in being inspected. I do not know anymore.

At the very least, please try to make Japanese citizens work in the world. If the hurdle of labor visa goes down, then you will be able to do it if you have English proficiency.

I had a lot of hardships. Although it is inferior to native, I am working without problems.

Oh, I wanted to go back to Japan. . .

2017-08-06

5 reasons why Japanese Engineer are fu*king da*n

  • Because they likes "Technical document" much, though they usually study with books even it's Front-end latest technology, Many of them are just translated original EN contents or da*n not sexy sample code, it's worthless in the world which dynamically changing day by day in few months. Regardless of free latest contents which can be found everywhere, they just get Secondary Information given by some evangelists with passive mindset, it causes making this Evangelist? market stable due to this kind of information gap structure.

See also : https://anond.hatelabo.jp/20170728223725

2016-11-01

Donald and Hilary

Hilary Clinton is beautiful.

Donald trump wants to give her shushi.

But she doesn't know what to do.

Because his affection is too much.

Things are getting difficult.

He tries to hold himself.

But trying hard makes him sad.

Trying harder makes him sadder.

She doesn't want to turn him down.

Because she knows it's too hard.

His attachment is too much.

She doesn't know what to do.

Things are getting difficult.

She wants to be nice to him.

Because he's been nice to her.

But doing so makes it last.

Doing more so makes it last longer.

She doesn't know what to say.

He doesn't know what to say.

 
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