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2020-05-25

民主党が日民主党と同様の悪いスパイラルに陥り始めている。

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/may/20/andrew-cuomo-new-york-coronavirus-catastrophe


There’s something disturbing about Cuomo being hailed as the hero of the pandemic when he should rightly be one of the villains. As Business Insider notes, he is now only able to attain praise for his actions because his earlier failures made those actions necessary. He’s lauded for addressing a problem that he himself partly caused. Of course, part of this is because Donald Trump has bungled the coronavirus response even more badly, so that Cuomo – by not being a complete buffoon – looks like a capable statesman by contrast. But this is the problem: for too long, Democrats have measured their politicians by “whether they are better than Republicans”. This sets the bar very low indeed, and means that Democrats end up settling for incompetent and amoral leaders who betray progressive values again and again.


彼は当然悪役の一人であるべきなのに、クオモがパンデミック英雄として歓迎されているという不穏な何かがある。Business Insiderが指摘するように、彼は今、彼の行動のための賞賛を得ることができるだけである、なぜなら彼の以前の失敗がそれらの行動を必要としたかである。彼自身部分的引き起こし問題対処したこと賞賛されている。もちろん、その一部は、ドナルド・トランプ氏がコロナウイルスへの対応さらにひどく失敗させてしまったためで、クオモ氏は-完全な大馬鹿者ではないことによって-対照的に、有能な政治家のように見えるのだ。しかし、これが問題なのだ。あまりにも長い間、民主党は「彼らが共和党よりも優れているかどうか」で政治家評価してきた。これは、バーを非常に低く設定しており、民主党は、進歩的価値観を何度も何度も裏切る無能不道徳指導者に落ち着くことになることを意味しています

※DeepLによる機械翻訳


これは米ガーディアン紙のNY知事クオモを批判する記事だ。

詳細はリンク先で読んでほしいが、最終段落はまるで日本野党を見ているようにしか見えない。

自分たちが何を目標としているかを示さずに、対立相手の悪い部分を指摘したり、比較して自分は良いと言っているだけの状態に陥ってしまい結局何がしたいのか見えなくなりつつあるということだ。

主導権を完全にトランプ及び共和党に握られている。

2020-05-20

プライバシーポリシー for ルーレットアプリ

Privacy Policy

ルーレット for 迷った時 (hereinafter referred to as "the Company"). The service provided on the Application (hereinafter referred to as the "Service") The following is the Privacy Policy (hereinafter referred to as the "Policy") regarding the handling of User's personal information by the Company (hereinafter referred to as the "Company") The following is an example of the

Article 1 (Personal Information)

The term "personal information" refers to "personal information" as defined in the Act on the Protection of Personal Information, and refers to information about a living individual that can be used to identify a specific individual, such as name, date of birth, address, telephone number, contact information and other descriptions, as well as information that can be used to identify a specific individual from the information itself, such as appearance, fingerprints, voiceprint data, and health insurance card insurer numbers (personal identification information).

Article 2 (Method of collecting personal information)

We may ask users for personal information such as name, date of birth, address, telephone number, email address, bank account number, credit card number, and driver's license number when they register to use the site. In addition, the Company may use transaction records and payment information, including the User's personal information, made between the User and its business partners, etc., for the purpose of protecting the Company's business partners (including information providers, advertisers, and ad distributors, etc.). (hereinafter referred to as the "Partner"). It may be collected from the following

Article 3 (Purpose of collecting and using personal information)

The purposes for which the Company collects and uses personal information are as follows

To provide and operate our services

To respond to the user's inquiries (including verifying the user's identity)

To send e-mails informing the user of new features, updated information, campaigns, and other services provided by the company.

To contact you when necessary, such as for maintenance and important notices

To identify users who violate the Terms of Service or who attempt to use the Service for illegal or unreasonable purposes, and to refuse their use.

To allow users to view, change, or delete their own registration information and to view their usage status

To charge users for paid services.

Purposes incidental to the above purposes of use

Article 4 (Change of purpose of use)

The Company will change the purpose of use of personal information only when it is reasonably recognized that the purpose of use is related to the one before the change.

If the purpose of use is changed, the Company shall notify the User of the changed purpose of use in a manner prescribed by the Company, or announce it on this website.

Article 5 (Provision of personal information to a third party)

The Company will not provide personal information to any third party without the prior consent of the User, except in the following cases However, this does not apply when permitted by the Personal Information Protection Law or other laws and regulations.

1-1. when it is necessary for the protection of a person's life, body or property and it is difficult to obtain the consent of the person

1-2. when it is particularly necessary for the improvement of public health or the promotion of the sound growth of children, and it is difficult to obtain the consent of the individual

1-3. when it is necessary to cooperate with a national organization, a local government, or a person entrusted by the national organization or local government in the execution of the affairs prescribed by laws and regulations, and obtaining the consent of the person is likely to impede the execution of the affairs

2-4 When the following matters are notified or made public in advance, and the Company notifies the Personal Information Protection Committee

2-4-1. the purpose of use includes the provision of information to third parties

2-4-2. Items of data to be provided to third parties

2-4-3 Means or method of providing to a third party

2-4-4. stopping the provision of personal information to a third party upon the request of the person

2-4-5. How to respond to a person's request

Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding paragraph, in the following cases, the party to whom the relevant information is provided does not fall under the category of a third party.

2-1 When the Company consigns the handling of personal information, in whole or in part, to the extent necessary to achieve the purpose of use

2-2. when personal information is provided as a result of the succession of a business due to a merger or other reasons

2-3. when personal information is to be used jointly with a specific person, and the person has been notified in advance or made readily available to the person to that effect, the items of personal information to be used jointly, the range of persons to be used jointly, the purpose of use by the person to be used, and the name or names of persons responsible for the management of the personal information

Article 6 (Disclosure of personal information)

When a person requests the disclosure of personal information, the Company will disclose it to that person without delay. However, we may not disclose all or part of the information if any of the following conditions are met by disclosure. Please note that a fee of 1,000 yen will be charged for each disclosure of personal information.

When there is a risk of harm to the life, body, property or other rights and interests of the person or a third party

When there is a risk of significant hindrance to the proper execution of the Company's business

In case of violation of other laws and regulations

Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding paragraph, information other than personal information, such as historical information and characteristic information, will not be disclosed in principle.

Article 7 (Correction and Deletion of Personal Information)

If the user's personal information held by the company is incorrect, the user may correct, add, or delete the personal information (hereinafter referred to as "correction, etc.") to the company according to the procedures established by the company. You can request a

In the event that the Company receives a request from a User as described in the preceding paragraph and judges that it is necessary to respond to the request, the Company shall correct, etc. the personal information concerned without delay.

When a correction is made under the provisions of the preceding paragraph, or when a decision is made not to make a correction, etc., the Company will notify the User of the correction without delay.

Article 8 (Suspension of use of personal information, etc.)

If the Company receives a request from an individual that personal information is being handled beyond the scope of the purpose of use or that it has been obtained by wrongful means, the Company will stop using or delete the information (hereinafter referred to as "stop using, etc."). In the event of a request for anonymity (e.g., "I"), we will conduct the necessary investigation without delay.

If, based on the results of the investigation set forth in the preceding paragraph, we determine that it is necessary to respond to the request, we will suspend the use of the personal information concerned without delay.

When the Company suspends the use of the Site in accordance with the provisions of the preceding paragraph, or when the Company decides not to suspend the use of the Site, it will notify the User without delay.

Notwithstanding the preceding two paragraphs, when it is difficult to suspend the use of the Site, etc., such as when there is a large amount of cost for suspending the use of the Site, etc., and when alternative measures can be taken to protect the rights and interests of the User, this alternative measure shall be taken.

Article 9 (Changes to the Privacy Policy)

The contents of this policy may be changed without notice to the user, except as otherwise provided in laws and regulations and this policy.

Unless otherwise specified by the Company, the revised Privacy Policy shall take effect from the time it is posted on this website.

Article 10 (Contact for inquiries)

If you have any questions about this policy, please contact us at the following

2020-05-19

プライバシーポリシー : ICカードリーダー

This Privacy Policy explains the information that Seiya Hori ("Seiya Hori" "**we**" "**us**" or "**our**"). collects when you use our app (the "**Services**"), how that information is used, with whom it may be shared, and your privacy choices.

## **1. Introduction**

### **Who we are and what we do**

It's become a timer app for indoor strength training. The app is focused on those who exercise and is easy to use.

### **Acceptance and Changes**

By registering for, downloading, or using our services, you accept this Privacy Policy. We may modify this Privacy Policy from time to time.

## **2. Children's Privacy**

We do not knowingly collect personal information from individuals who are under the minimum required ages specified herein. You must be at least 18 years of age, or the age of majority in your jurisdiction (whichever is greater), to use our services.

## **3. Data We Collect About You**

We collect information about you when you use our services. In addition, third parties may collect information about you when you use our services. Collected information may include or reflect personal information that could identify you, as well as non-personal information. We refer to your information as "**your data**" for short.

### **Content**

Accountholders may create a profile and upload content such as videos. For more details, see **Section 9**. You may allow us to access your camera roll for the purpose of automatically creating videos.

### **Other Information You May Submit**

You may submit data to us for limited purposes such as requesting customer support; answering a questionnaire; participating in a study; entering contests or sweepstakes; or signing up to receive communications from us or another user.

### **Automatically-Collected Information**

We automatically collect certain types of data when you use our services, regardless of whether you have an account. This data includes your IP address, technical information about your device (e.g., browser type, operating system, basic device information), the web page you visited or search query you entered before reaching us, and your activities.

### **Information Collected by Third Parties**

Some third parties may collect data about you when you use our services. This may include data you submit (such as payment information) or automatically-collected information (in the case of third-party analytics providers and advertisers).

We may obtain data from third parties about you. We may combine that data with information that we have collected. For example, some advertisers or advertising platforms may allow us to determine what other online services you might use so that we may place relevant ads on those services.

## **4. How We Use Your Data**

We may use your data for the following purposes:

Identification and authentication:** We use your data to verify you when you access your account.
Operating our services:** We use your data to provide our services, process and fulfill orders, provide customer support, and to otherwise comply with our contractual obligations to you. We (and/or our third-party vendors) use your financial information to process purchases made by you.
Communicating with you:** We use your data when we communicate with you (e.g., when we respond to customer support or other inquiry).
Improving our services:** We use your data to understand how our services are being used and how we can improve them. In general, we analyze aggregated data, rather than specific user data. We may, however, need to analyze a specific case to address a specific problem (e.g., a bug that affects only a few accounts).
Customizing your experience:** We use your data to personalize the service to you. This may include remembering your preferences for language or volume or displaying videos that you might enjoy, based upon your viewing choices.
Marketing and advertising:** We use your data to display ads and send you offers. We may also use your data in delivering third-party advertisements to you. This may include "targeted ads" based upon your activities.
Exercising our rights:** Where reasonably necessary, we use your data to exercise our legal rights and prevent abuse of our service. For example, we may use your data to detect and prevent fraud, spam, or content that violates our Terms of Service.
Legal compliance:** We use your data where we are legally required to do so. For example, we may need to gather your data to respond to a subpoena or court order.
Protecting your information:** Where appropriate, we may anonymize, backup, and delete certain data.

We may use algorithms and other automated means to implement any of the above.

Whenever we process your data for one of these purposes, we have determined that one or more of the following lawful bases apply:

Performance of a contract;

Legitimate commercial interest;

Compliance with a legal obligation; or

Consent

## **5. With Whom We Share Your Data**

We may share data with third parties as follows:

With your consent:** We may share your data with third parties where we have obtained your express consent to do so. You may revoke these consents.
Authorized vendors:** We may share your data with third-party vendors that help us operate our services, process orders, and comply with your instructions and our contractual obligations. This includes payment processors, content delivery networks (CDNs), cloud-based hosting services, monitoring services, email service providers, quality assurance and testing vendors, fraud and abuse prevention vendors, and customer relations management (CRM) vendors.
Advertising:** We may share your data with advertising companies to display relevant ads to you. Unless you expressly agree, we will not share or sell your name, email address, or physical address with such persons.
Analytics:** We may share your data with persons who provide analytics showing how customers are using our services.
Affiliates and advisors:** We may share your data with our parent company, IAC/InterActiveCorp, and our auditors and advisors for planning, financial reporting, accounting, auditing, tax filings, and legal compliance. Unless you expressly agree, we will not share your data with our parent or any affiliate for other purposes, such as direct marketing.
Certain legal situations:** We may share your data where we believe disclosure is necessary to comply with a legal obligation or in connection with a corporate transaction as discussed in **Section 6**.
Aggregated or anonymized information:** We may publicly disclose non-personal aggregated or anonymized information such as our number of visitors and registered users.

We use reasonable efforts to vet vendors for their privacy and data security practices. We require that such vendors agree to protect the data we share.

## **6. Legal and Safety-Related Disclosures**

We may disclose your data in response to official requests (e.g., court orders, subpoenas, search warrants, national security requests, etc.) ("**requests**") that we receive from government authorities or parties to legal proceedings.

We handle Japanese requests in accordance with Japanese law. If the request originates from a foreign jurisdiction, we will typically disclose information where we in good faith believe that disclosure is permitted by Japanese law. In all cases, we may raise or waive any legal objection or right available to us, in our sole discretion.

We may disclose user data where we reasonably believe that someone's life is at risk. For example, if we become aware of a person threatening to commit suicide, we may share that person's data with appropriate entities that may have the ability to help.

We may disclose user data in situations involving legal claims against us or one of our users.

We may share your data with potential transaction partners, advisors, and others in the event our company is, in whole or part, acquired by a third party. In such a case, we will use reasonable efforts to require the acquiring entity to comply with this Privacy Policy.

## **7. Data Retention**

We may retain your data for as long as you have an account. We may retain logs of automatically collected information (for internal analytics); your email address; your tax information; communications with you; and your transactional information (for auditing, tax, and financial purposes). When we no longer have a business reason for retaining data, we will delete or anonymize it.

We may retain deleted videos on our servers for a short period in case you wish to reverse deletion. Once we delete a video, we may not be able to recover it. If you have previously made a video public, the video or its thumbnail may be discoverable in a search engine's cache for a time. We have no control over search engines; however, we will, upon request, send a request for deletion to major search engines.

If we receive legal process pertaining to your account, we will retain your data for as long as we in good faith believe is necessary to comply with the legal process. Similarly, if we believe that your account has been involved in wrongdoing, we may preserve your data to defend or assert our rights.

## **8. Your Privacy Choices**

We enable you to make numerous choices about your data:

You may choose not to provide us with certain information. For example, you may choose not to create an account or not to provide optional account information.

You may change your video privacy settings. See **Section 9** for more details.

You may change or correct information voluntarily submitted to us. We encourage you to keep your data current by viewing your account settings page.

You may opt-out of receiving commercial emails from us. See **Section 10** for more details.

You may limit the use of cookies. See our Cookie Policy for options.

You may backup your videos.

You may close your account (which will delete all videos) or delete certain videos.

Users from certain countries may have additional rights. See **Section 14** for more details.

## **9. Account and Video Privacy Settings**

Our video hosting and sharing tools offer the ability to limit the distribution of your content, including your videos. This section explains some of your choices.

## **10. Communications from Us**

### **Mobile Device Communications**

We may, with your consent, send push notifications in our apps. You may disable these by declining them or changing the app's settings. To the extent provided, we may, with your consent, send SMS messages to your mobile telephone for authentication and security purposes. You may opt out of receiving such messages at any time.

## **11. Protecting Your Information**

We use physical, technical, and organizational security measures to safeguard your data from unauthorized or accidental disclosure. Despite these efforts, no information system can be 100% secure, so we cannot guarantee the absolute security of your information.

## **12. Your Responsibilities**

You may receive other people's data in using our service. If you receive information from other users, you must comply with all laws, including those concerning privacy, data security, and online marketing.

## **13. Third-Party Services**

We may provide links to online services that we do not own or operate. These services fall outside of this Privacy Policy and we have no control over the data they collect. Once on a third-party site, your data may be collected by others. We encourage you to read the privacy policies of such services before using them.

You may use our service through third-party sites. For example, you may watch a video that is embedded on a third-party site or uses one of our apps on a third-party platform. This Privacy Policy covers our apps and video players but does not cover any third-party site or any third-party video player.

## **14. International Data Transfers and Certain User Rights**

### **Location of Data**

It is based in Japan. We provide services globally using computer systems, servers, and databases located in Japan. and other countries. When you use our services from outside of Japan, your information will be transferred to, stored in, and processed in Japan. and other countries. Please note that Japanese data and privacy laws may not be as comprehensive as those in your country.

2020-05-12

ぽくはパヨのみかた

最初ツイートをする ざわざわ慣れない感じ

ふむふむでもね(違うなでもね) 少数派は見えない

1日で消したツイート

Three, two, one, come on!

ぽくはパヨのみかた

誓ったあの日から

ぽくはパヨのみかた

すべてを変えてく

お金トリガー

最後の一人がー

トップツイートご覧に 反論メンションばかり

ふむふむでもね(違うなでもね) 擁護派は見えない

1日で消したツイート

Three, two, one, come on!

ぽくはパヨのみかた

誓ったあの日から

ぽくはパヨのみかた

すべてを変えてく

お金トリガー

最後の一人がー

2020-05-10

Shouldn't "whites" be correctly discriminated against in corona?

Shouldn't "white people" be correctly discriminated against in corona?

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Discrimination and persecution related to coronaviruses is now widespread worldwide.

There is a concrete and wide-ranging summary of the situation.

―――

"List of Incidents of Foreign Fear and Racism Related to the COVID-19 Pandemic"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_incidents_of_xenophobia_and_racism_related_to_the_COVID-19_pandemic

―――

That is the English version of Wikipedia article.

With Google Chrome, right-click → Translate to Japanese, but the translation is a bit rough, but anyone can read it in Japanese.

The contents are like this.

―――

>> In France, after the new coronavirus was confirmed on January 24, 2020, a lot of harassment and discrimination against Asians occurred [41]. It is aimed at Asians such as Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino [42], and taxis and trains that refuse to board Chinese, Korean, Japanese have appeared [41] [43] ].

>> French newspaper Le Courrier Picard featured an Asian woman in a mask on the top page on January 26, 2020 with the heading "Yellow Alert".

>> On March 8, 2020, a Japanese restaurant in Rivoli, Turin, Piedmont, was targeted for arson by a teenager who teased his owner and called him an epidemic carrier. [191]

―――

Not limited to the above, Wuhan and Africans in China, Chinese and infected people in Japan.

Discrimination, whether in the United States, Egypt, Africa or anywhere in the world, exists at all.

In a sense, it's almost equal. Under extreme circumstances, it is not uncommon for "weak" people to be able to keep themselves without creating enemies.

-

However, what I want to say is not a used phrase such as "Let's live kindly with philanthropy."

There is no objection to it. If the world can eliminate discrimination and prejudice, I naturally want it.

But what I felt was a big question before that. It can be called academic interest.

-

Chinese discriminate against Wuhan natives, Japanese discriminate against Chinese, and Europeans discriminate against Asians.

I see, there is a reason to that, considering the spread of coronavirus infection. "From what you see, what's dangerous is that area".

Roughly, it may be the result of thinking about "weak" people.

-

But here's the strange thing. Asians, Africans, yellows and blacks, they are discriminated against in many places around the world.

Frankly speaking, it's safe to say that blacks have little to do with the coronavirus. It's just that the original sense of discrimination has surfaced.

These ethnic groups and regions are equally discriminated against. It is a sense of discrimination that is based on fear but is incorrect but makes sense.

-

However. Then why isn't "white people" discriminated against?

-

From April to May, the coronavirus showed an explosive spread in the West.

In the ranking of the number of infected people in the world, the United States is alone, with 1.34 million people, accounting for more than a quarter of the total infected people of 402 million people as of May 10.

After the second place, Spain, Italy, the United Kingdom, Russia, Germany, Brazil and France are followed, and each has more than 100,000 domestic cases.

Excluding Brazil, everything from 2nd to 7th is Europe. The word "Western Europe" is clearly the most dangerous coronavirus-contaminated area / infectious zone in the world.

-

However. Strangely enough, there is little talk that "white people, Europeans, and Americans are discriminated against in the world."

Of course it is not zero, but while looking for one "white discrimination", it is possible to find "Asian discrimination", "Black discrimination" and "Yellow discrimination".

It is said that what is currently expanding in the world is not the first wave from China, but the second wave from Europe, which is the pandemic.

-

With this, it is still understandable that the "white man" continues to do the right thing cleanly and correctly and has succeeded in corona countermeasures.

However, white people have continued to discriminate among Asians since the beginning of the spread.

In January and February, it was not uncommon to hear that Asians were already walking around in the country, calling them "Corona Corona."

By all means, white people are the incarnation of evil. It's not a good thing.

-

Regardless of the early stages of the epidemic, now that the "hotbed of corona infection" has moved there, it should be possible for white people to hate it.

Otherwise, it cannot be called "equal discrimination". As a result, it is wrong.

-

-

If you think about the reason here, after all, "targets are races / objects that originally had hostility",

The hypothesis may be that "there are restrictions on mobility and there are white Asian societies, but few non-white societies are white."

It must be interesting to study the area academically.

-

However, historically, I've seen that "white people" crusade various places with the Crusades and do all they can to the contrary.

I think that the trilingual diplomacy of Britain has created the situation in the Middle East, where terrorism is frequent nowadays, and has repeatedly carried out wrongdoing by repeatedly discriminating against blacks, Indians, and yellow races.

So, isn't it right here to try to discriminate against white people correctly?

-

Non-white society is a little too kind to "white people".

It was around this time today when I was thinking about that.

2020-05-04

Privacy Policy - Muscle Timer App

This Privacy Policy explains the information that Seiya Hori ("Seiya Hori" "**we**" "**us**" or "**our**"). collects when you use our app (the "**Services**"), how that information is used, with whom it may be shared, and your privacy choices.

## **1. Introduction**

### **Who we are and what we do**

It's become a timer app for indoor strength training. The app is focused on those who exercise and is easy to use.

### **Acceptance and Changes**

By registering for, downloading, or using our services, you accept this Privacy Policy. We may modify this Privacy Policy from time to time.

## **2. Children's Privacy**

We do not knowingly collect personal information from individuals who are under the minimum required ages specified herein. You must be at least 18 years of age, or the age of majority in your jurisdiction (whichever is greater), to use our services.

## **3. Data We Collect About You**

We collect information about you when you use our services. In addition, third parties may collect information about you when you use our services. Collected information may include or reflect personal information that could identify you, as well as non-personal information. We refer to your information as "**your data**" for short.

### **Content**

Accountholders may create a profile and upload content such as videos. For more details, see **Section 9**. You may allow us to access your camera roll for the purpose of automatically creating videos.

### **Other Information You May Submit**

You may submit data to us for limited purposes such as requesting customer support; answering a questionnaire; participating in a study; entering contests or sweepstakes; or signing up to receive communications from us or another user.

### **Automatically-Collected Information**

We automatically collect certain types of data when you use our services, regardless of whether you have an account. This data includes your IP address, technical information about your device (e.g., browser type, operating system, basic device information), the web page you visited or search query you entered before reaching us, and your activities.

### **Information Collected by Third Parties**

Some third parties may collect data about you when you use our services. This may include data you submit (such as payment information) or automatically-collected information (in the case of third-party analytics providers and advertisers).

We may obtain data from third parties about you. We may combine that data with information that we have collected. For example, some advertisers or advertising platforms may allow us to determine what other online services you might use so that we may place relevant ads on those services.

## **4. How We Use Your Data**

We may use your data for the following purposes:

  • **Identification and authentication:** We use your data to verify you when you access your account.
  • **Operating our services:** We use your data to provide our services, process and fulfill orders, provide customer support, and to otherwise comply with our contractual obligations to you. We (and/or our third-party vendors) use your financial information to process purchases made by you.
  • **Communicating with you:** We use your data when we communicate with you (e.g., when we respond to customer support or other inquiry).
  • **Improving our services:** We use your data to understand how our services are being used and how we can improve them. In general, we analyze aggregated data, rather than specific user data. We may, however, need to analyze a specific case to address a specific problem (e.g., a bug that affects only a few accounts).
  • **Customizing your experience:** We use your data to personalize the service to you. This may include remembering your preferences for language or volume or displaying videos that you might enjoy, based upon your viewing choices.
  • **Marketing and advertising:** We use your data to display ads and send you offers. We may also use your data in delivering third-party advertisements to you. This may include "targeted ads" based upon your activities.
  • **Exercising our rights:** Where reasonably necessary, we use your data to exercise our legal rights and prevent abuse of our service. For example, we may use your data to detect and prevent fraud, spam, or content that violates our Terms of Service.
  • **Legal compliance:** We use your data where we are legally required to do so. For example, we may need to gather your data to respond to a subpoena or court order.
  • **Protecting your information:** Where appropriate, we may anonymize, backup, and delete certain data.

We may use algorithms and other automated means to implement any of the above.

Whenever we process your data for one of these purposes, we have determined that one or more of the following lawful bases apply:

## **5. With Whom We Share Your Data**

We may share data with third parties as follows:

We use reasonable efforts to vet vendors for their privacy and data security practices. We require that such vendors agree to protect the data we share.

## **6. Legal and Safety-Related Disclosures**

We may disclose your data in response to official requests (e.g., court orders, subpoenas, search warrants, national security requests, etc.) ("**requests**") that we receive from government authorities or parties to legal proceedings.

We handle Japanese requests in accordance with Japanese law. If the request originates from a foreign jurisdiction, we will typically disclose information where we in good faith believe that disclosure is permitted by Japanese law. In all cases, we may raise or waive any legal objection or right available to us, in our sole discretion.

We may disclose user data where we reasonably believe that someone's life is at risk. For example, if we become aware of a person threatening to commit suicide, we may share that person's data with appropriate entities that may have the ability to help.

We may disclose user data in situations involving legal claims against us or one of our users.

We may share your data with potential transaction partners, advisors, and others in the event our company is, in whole or part, acquired by a third party. In such a case, we will use reasonable efforts to require the acquiring entity to comply with this Privacy Policy.

## **7. Data Retention**

We may retain your data for as long as you have an account. We may retain logs of automatically collected information (for internal analytics); your email address; your tax information; communications with you; and your transactional information (for auditing, tax, and financial purposes). When we no longer have a business reason for retaining data, we will delete or anonymize it.

We may retain deleted videos on our servers for a short period in case you wish to reverse deletion. Once we delete a video, we may not be able to recover it. If you have previously made a video public, the video or its thumbnail may be discoverable in a search engine's cache for a time. We have no control over search engines; however, we will, upon request, send a request for deletion to major search engines.

If we receive legal process pertaining to your account, we will retain your data for as long as we in good faith believe is necessary to comply with the legal process. Similarly, if we believe that your account has been involved in wrongdoing, we may preserve your data to defend or assert our rights.

## **8. Your Privacy Choices**

We enable you to make numerous choices about your data:

Users from certain countries may have additional rights. See **Section 14** for more details.

## **9. Account and Video Privacy Settings**

Our video hosting and sharing tools offer the ability to limit the distribution of your content, including your videos. This section explains some of your choices.

## **10. Communications from Us**

### **Mobile Device Communications**

We may, with your consent, send push notifications in our apps. You may disable these by declining them or changing the app's settings. To the extent provided, we may, with your consent, send SMS messages to your mobile telephone for authentication and security purposes. You may opt out of receiving such messages at any time.

## **11. Protecting Your Information**

We use physical, technical, and organizational security measures to safeguard your data from unauthorized or accidental disclosure. Despite these efforts, no information system can be 100% secure, so we cannot guarantee the absolute security of your information.

## **12. Your Responsibilities**

You may receive other people's data in using our service. If you receive information from other users, you must comply with all laws, including those concerning privacy, data security, and online marketing.

## **13. Third-Party Services**

We may provide links to online services that we do not own or operate. These services fall outside of this Privacy Policy and we have no control over the data they collect. Once on a third-party site, your data may be collected by others. We encourage you to read the privacy policies of such services before using them.

You may use our service through third-party sites. For example, you may watch a video that is embedded on a third-party site or uses one of our apps on a third-party platform. This Privacy Policy covers our apps and video players but does not cover any third-party site or any third-party video player.

## **14. International Data Transfers and Certain User Rights**

### **Location of Data**

It is based in Japan. We provide services globally using computer systems, servers, and databases located in Japan. and other countries. When you use our services from outside of Japan, your information will be transferred to, stored in, and processed in Japan. and other countries. Please note that Japanese data and privacy laws may not be as comprehensive as those in your country.

2020-05-02

Zenpeace - Terms of Use

I. INTRODUCTION

These Terms of Use and End User License Agreement (collectively, the “Agreement”) together with all the documents referred to in it constitute a legally binding agreement made between you as a natural person (“you”, “your” or “user”) and We (“we,” “us” or “our”), concerning your access to and use of the software application for mobile devices (the “App”).

All the documents that relate to the App are hereby expressly incorporated herein by reference.

Please read this Agreement carefully before you download, install or use the App.

It is important that you read and understand this Agreement as by downloading, installing or using the App you indicate that you have read, understood, agreed and accepted the Agreement which takes effect on the date on which you download, install or use the App. By using the App you agree to abide by this Agreement.

If you do not agree with (do not accept) this Agreement, or if you do not agree at least with one of the provisions of this Agreement, you are not authorized to, and you may not access, download, install or use the App and you must ly discontinue downloading, installing the App and remove (delete) the App from any mobile device in your possession or under your control.

II. CHANGES TO THIS AGREEMENT

We reserve the right, at our sole discretion, to make changes or modifications to this Agreement at any time and for any reason. We will keep you informed about any changes by updating this Agreement and you waive any right to receive specific notice of each such change. It is your responsibility to periodically review this Agreement to stay informed of updates. You will be subject to, and will be deemed to be aware of and to have accepted, the changes in any revised Agreement by your continued use of the App after the date such revised Agreement is posted.

III. RESTRICTIONS ON WHO CAN USE THE APP

In order to download, install, access or use the App, you must (a) be eighteen (18) years of age or older.

All users who are minors in the jurisdiction in which they reside (generally under the age of 18) must have the permission of, and be directly supervised by, their parent or guardian to use the App, so if you are between the ages of thirteen (13) and seventeen (17) years and you wish to use download, install, access or use the App, before doing so you must: (a) assure and confirm (if needed) that your parent or guardian have read and agree (get your parent or guardian’s consent) to this Agreement prior to you using the App; (b) have the power to enter a binding contract with us and not be barred from doing so under any applicable laws.

Parents and guardians must directly supervise any use of the App by minors.

Any person under the age of thirteen (13) years is not permitted to download, install, access or use the App.

You affirm that you are either more than eighteen 18 years of age, or an emancipated minor, or possess legal parental or guardian consent, and are fully able and competent to enter into the terms, conditions, obligations, affirmations, representations, and warranties set forth in this Agreement, and to abide by and comply with this Agreement.

IV. GENERAL TERMS

The App is a utility program designed to enhance your device experience. The App allows to scan any types of document to high quality PDF or JPEG; to save and store any scan copies of documents on your mobile devices; to share your scans via email; upload scanned documents to cloud services like box, Evernote or Google Drive (see the full performance list on the App’s page on itunes.apple.com). All documents shall be stored locally on your device and shall never be sent to any third-party unless you export them to other apps or devices by means of the App.

The App is intended only for your personal non-commercial use. You shall use the App only for the purposes, mentioned above.

V. PRIVACY POLICY

Your privacy is very important to us. Accordingly, we have developed the Privacy Policy in order for you to understand how we process, use and store information including personal data. Access to the App and use of the Services is subject to the Privacy Policy. By accessing the App and by continuing to use the Services, you are deemed to have accepted the Privacy Policy, and in particular, you are deemed to have acknowledged the ways we process your information as well as appropriate legal grounds for processing described in the Privacy Policy. We reserve the right to amend the Privacy Policy from time to time. If you disagree with any part of the Privacy Policy, you must immediately stop using the App and Services. Please read our Privacy Policy carefully.

VI. END USER LICENSE AGREEMENT

By using the App, you undertake to respect our intellectual rights (intellectual rights related to the App’s source code, UI/UX design, content material, copyright and trademarks, hereinafter referred to as the “Intellectual Property Rights”) as well as those owned by third parties.

As long as you keep using the App, we you a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable non-sublicensable, non-assignable and revocable license to access and use the App pursuant to this Agreement on any Apple-branded products that you own or control except that the App may be accessed and used by other accounts associated with you via Family Sharing or volume purchasing (the “License”).

The source code, design and content, including information, photographs, illustrations, artwork and other graphic materials, sounds, music or video (hereinafter – the “works”) as well as names, logos and trademarks (hereinafter – “means of individualization”) within the App are protected by copyright laws and other relevant laws and/or international treaties, and belong to us and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, as the case may be.

In the event of any third party claim that your possession and use of the App infringes that third party’s intellectual property rights, Apple will not be responsible for the investigation, defense, settlement and discharge of any such intellectual property infringement claim.

These works and means of individualization may not be copied, reproduced, retransmitted, distributed, disseminated, sold, published, broadcasted or circulated whether in whole or in part, unless expressly permitted by us and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, as the case may be.

All rights, title and interest in and to the App and its content, works and means of individualization as well as its functionalities (1) are the exclusive property of We and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, (2) are protected by the applicable international and national legal provisions, and (3) are under no circumstances transferred (assigned) to you in full or in part within the context of the license herewithin.

We will not hesitate to take legal action against any unauthorized use of our trademarks, names or symbols to protect and restore our rights. All rights not expressly ed herein are reserved. Other product and company names mentioned herein may also be the trademarks of their respective owners.

VII. PROHIBITED BEHAVIOUR

You agree not to use the App in any way that:

is unlawful, illegal or unauthorized;

is defamatory of any other person;

is obscene or offensive;

infringes any copyright, right or trademark of any other person;

advocates, promotes or assists any unlawful act such as (by way of example only) copyright infringement or computer misuse.

You shall not make the App available to any third parties. In addition, you shall not modify, translate into other languages, reverse engineer, decompile, disassemble or otherwise derivative works from the App or any documentation concerning the App.

You shall not transfer, lend, rent, lease, distribute the App, or use it for providing services to a third party, or any rights to the App or any documentation concerning the App to a third party.

Misuse of any trademarks or any other content displayed on the App is prohibited.

You shall not copy and/or duplicate and/or distribute and/or publish and/or use any content in the App, directly or indirectly, by way of a violation of our Intellectual Property Rights.

Moreover, you shall not make any attempts to use the App or part thereof for malicious intentions.

Also we are not responsible for the way you use the App.

It is clarified that we may adopt, against a user who violated the present Agreement, any legal measures at our disposal pursuant to the applicable laws.

All disputes arising from the usage of the App, shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the United States of America, and shall be submitted to the sole jurisdiction of the competent courts of New York, New York, the United States of America.

VIII. AVAILABILITY OF THE APP, SECURITY AND ACCURACY

In order to use the App, you are required to have a compatible mobile phone or tablet, and internet access. However, please note that we offer you widgets that save translations and allow you to access them later in offline mode.

The App is available for downloading and installing on handheld compatible mobile devices running Apple iOS Operating System 11.0 with minimum system requirements.

We do not warrant that the App will be compatible with all hardware and software which you may use.

We make no warranty that your access to the App will be uninterrupted, timely or error-free. Neither does Apple have an obligation whatsoever to furnish any maintenance and support services with respect to the App.

You acknowledge the App is provided via the internet and mobile networks and so the quality and availability of the App may be affected by factors outside our reasonable control.

The version of the App may be upgraded from time to time to add support for new functions and services.

We may change or update the App and anything described in it without noticing you. If the need arises, we may suspend access to the App, or close it indefinitely.

You also warrant that any information that you submit to us is true, accurate and complete, and you agree to keep it actual at all times.

You can discontinue using our Services at any time by choosing the relevant option in your iTunes Account Settings. If you decide not to use the App for any reason you should uninstall the App.

IX. CHARGES

The App is provided on a paid basis. You will need to pay a one-time fee of $14.99 in order to download the App. Once you download the App, you will get access to all its features.

Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

You may be charged by your communications service provider for downloading and/or accessing the App on your mobile phone or tablet device, so you should check the terms of agreement with your operator. This may include data roaming charges if you do this outside your home territory. All these charges are solely your responsibility. If you do not pay the bills related to your mobile phone or tablet device, then we assume that you have the permission from the person that does it before incurring any of these charges.

X. THIRD PARTY WEBSITES AND RESOURCES

The App may link you to other sites on the Internet and contracted third parties to provide you certain services. We have no control over and accept no responsibility for the content of any website or mobile application to which a link from the App exists (unless we are the provider of those linked websites or mobile applications). Such linked websites and mobile applications are providedas is” for your convenience only with no warranty, express or implied, for the information provided within them.

You acknowledge that you must comply with applicable third party terms of agreement when using the App. You are solely responsible for and bear all risks arising from your use of any third-party websites or resources.

If you have any queries, concerns or complaints about such third party websites or mobile applications (including, but not limited to, queries, concerns or complaints relating to products, orders for products, faulty products and refunds) you must direct them to the operator of that third party website or mobile application.

XI. DISCLAIMER OF WARRANTIES

YOU AGREE THAT YOUR USE OF THE APP AND ITS SERVICES SHALL BE AT YOUR SOLE RISK. THE SERVICES AND ALL THE MATERIALS, INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, CONTENT INTEGRATED IN THE APP ARE PROVIDEDAS IS” AND “AS AVAILABLE”. WE DO NOT MAKE ANY WARRANTIES OF ANY KIND, EITHER EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, WITH REGARD TO THE MERCHANTABILITY, TECHNICAL COMPATIBILITY OR FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE OF ANY SERVICE, PRODUCTS OR MATERIAL PROVIDED PURSUANT TO THIS AGREEMENT. WE DO NOT WARRANT THAT THE FUNCTIONS CONTAINED ON OR THROUGH THE SERVICES WILL BE AVAILABLE, UNINTERRUPTED OR ERROR-FREE, THAT DEFECTS WILL BE CORRECTED, OR THAT THE SER

Zenpeace - Privacy Policy

Privacy Policy

Zenpeace (hereinafter referred to as "the Company"). The service provided on the Application (hereinafter referred to as the "Service") The following is the Privacy Policy (hereinafter referred to as the "Policy") regarding the handling of User's personal information by the Company (hereinafter referred to as the "Company") The following is an example of the

Article 1 (Personal Information)

The term "personal information" refers to "personal information" as defined in the Act on the Protection of Personal Information, and refers to information about a living individual that can be used to identify a specific individual, such as name, date of birth, address, telephone number, contact information and other descriptions, as well as information that can be used to identify a specific individual from the information itself, such as appearance, fingerprints, voiceprint data, and health insurance card insurer numbers (personal identification information).

Article 2 (Method of collecting personal information)

We may ask users for personal information such as name, date of birth, address, telephone number, email address, bank account number, credit card number, and driver's license number when they register to use the site. In addition, the Company may use transaction records and payment information, including the User's personal information, made between the User and its business partners, etc., for the purpose of protecting the Company's business partners (including information providers, advertisers, and ad distributors, etc.). (hereinafter referred to as the "Partner"). It may be collected from the following

Article 3 (Purpose of collecting and using personal information)

The purposes for which the Company collects and uses personal information are as follows

To provide and operate our services

To respond to the user's inquiries (including verifying the user's identity)

To send e-mails informing the user of new features, updated information, campaigns, and other services provided by the company.

To contact you when necessary, such as for maintenance and important notices

To identify users who violate the Terms of Service or who attempt to use the Service for illegal or unreasonable purposes, and to refuse their use.

To allow users to view, change, or delete their own registration information and to view their usage status

To charge users for paid services.

Purposes incidental to the above purposes of use

Article 4 (Change of purpose of use)

The Company will change the purpose of use of personal information only when it is reasonably recognized that the purpose of use is related to the one before the change.

If the purpose of use is changed, the Company shall notify the User of the changed purpose of use in a manner prescribed by the Company, or announce it on this website.

Article 5 (Provision of personal information to a third party)

The Company will not provide personal information to any third party without the prior consent of the User, except in the following cases However, this does not apply when permitted by the Personal Information Protection Law or other laws and regulations.

1-1. when it is necessary for the protection of a person's life, body or property and it is difficult to obtain the consent of the person

1-2. when it is particularly necessary for the improvement of public health or the promotion of the sound growth of children, and it is difficult to obtain the consent of the individual

1-3. when it is necessary to cooperate with a national organization, a local government, or a person entrusted by the national organization or local government in the execution of the affairs prescribed by laws and regulations, and obtaining the consent of the person is likely to impede the execution of the affairs

2-4 When the following matters are notified or made public in advance, and the Company notifies the Personal Information Protection Committee

2-4-1. the purpose of use includes the provision of information to third parties

2-4-2. Items of data to be provided to third parties

2-4-3 Means or method of providing to a third party

2-4-4. stopping the provision of personal information to a third party upon the request of the person

2-4-5. How to respond to a person's request

Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding paragraph, in the following cases, the party to whom the relevant information is provided does not fall under the category of a third party.

2-1 When the Company consigns the handling of personal information, in whole or in part, to the extent necessary to achieve the purpose of use

2-2. when personal information is provided as a result of the succession of a business due to a merger or other reasons

2-3. when personal information is to be used jointly with a specific person, and the person has been notified in advance or made readily available to the person to that effect, the items of personal information to be used jointly, the range of persons to be used jointly, the purpose of use by the person to be used, and the name or names of persons responsible for the management of the personal information

Article 6 (Disclosure of personal information)

When a person requests the disclosure of personal information, the Company will disclose it to that person without delay. However, we may not disclose all or part of the information if any of the following conditions are met by disclosure. Please note that a fee of 1,000 yen will be charged for each disclosure of personal information.

When there is a risk of harm to the life, body, property or other rights and interests of the person or a third party

When there is a risk of significant hindrance to the proper execution of the Company's business

In case of violation of other laws and regulations

Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding paragraph, information other than personal information, such as historical information and characteristic information, will not be disclosed in principle.

Article 7 (Correction and Deletion of Personal Information)

If the user's personal information held by the company is incorrect, the user may correct, add, or delete the personal information (hereinafter referred to as "correction, etc.") to the company according to the procedures established by the company. You can request a

In the event that the Company receives a request from a User as described in the preceding paragraph and judges that it is necessary to respond to the request, the Company shall correct, etc. the personal information concerned without delay.

When a correction is made under the provisions of the preceding paragraph, or when a decision is made not to make a correction, etc., the Company will notify the User of the correction without delay.

Article 8 (Suspension of use of personal information, etc.)

If the Company receives a request from an individual that personal information is being handled beyond the scope of the purpose of use or that it has been obtained by wrongful means, the Company will stop using or delete the information (hereinafter referred to as "stop using, etc."). In the event of a request for anonymity (e.g., "I"), we will conduct the necessary investigation without delay.

If, based on the results of the investigation set forth in the preceding paragraph, we determine that it is necessary to respond to the request, we will suspend the use of the personal information concerned without delay.

When the Company suspends the use of the Site in accordance with the provisions of the preceding paragraph, or when the Company decides not to suspend the use of the Site, it will notify the User without delay.

Notwithstanding the preceding two paragraphs, when it is difficult to suspend the use of the Site, etc., such as when there is a large amount of cost for suspending the use of the Site, etc., and when alternative measures can be taken to protect the rights and interests of the User, this alternative measure shall be taken.

Article 9 (Changes to the Privacy Policy)

The contents of this policy may be changed without notice to the user, except as otherwise provided in laws and regulations and this policy.

Unless otherwise specified by the Company, the revised Privacy Policy shall take effect from the time it is posted on this website.

Article 10 (Contact for inquiries)

If you have any questions about this policy, please contact us at the following

2020-04-30

辞書イチオシ項目

俺は断然これ

https://www.ldoceonline.com/jp/dictionary/luke-skywalker

ロングマン現代英英辞典より、ルーク・スカイウォーカーの項目

Sky‧walk‧er, Lukeskaɪwɔːkə $ -wɒːkər/

one of the main characters in the Star Wars films, who leads the fight against the evil empire and Darth Vader, who is in fact Luke's father

映画スターウォーズシリーズの主要登場人物のひとりで、悪の帝国ダースベイダーに対する戦いを率いるが、実はダースベイダーは彼の父である

 

Who is in fact Luke’s fatherをわざわざ付け足してネタバレしてるのが本当にいい 絶対書かなくてもなんとかなるんだよな

2020-04-29

Term of Use

I. INTRODUCTION

These Terms of Use and End User License Agreement (collectively, the “Agreement”) together with all the documents referred to in it constitute a legally binding agreement made between you as a natural person (“you”, “your” or “user”) and We (“we,” “us” or “our”), concerning your access to and use of the software application for mobile devices (the “App”).

All the documents that relate to the App are hereby expressly incorporated herein by reference.

Please read this Agreement carefully before you download, install or use the App.

It is important that you read and understand this Agreement as by downloading, installing or using the App you indicate that you have read, understood, agreed and accepted the Agreement which takes effect on the date on which you download, install or use the App. By using the App you agree to abide by this Agreement.

If you do not agree with (do not accept) this Agreement, or if you do not agree at least with one of the provisions of this Agreement, you are not authorized to, and you may not access, download, install or use the App and you must ly discontinue downloading, installing the App and remove (delete) the App from any mobile device in your possession or under your control.

II. CHANGES TO THIS AGREEMENT

We reserve the right, at our sole discretion, to make changes or modifications to this Agreement at any time and for any reason. We will keep you informed about any changes by updating this Agreement and you waive any right to receive specific notice of each such change. It is your responsibility to periodically review this Agreement to stay informed of updates. You will be subject to, and will be deemed to be aware of and to have accepted, the changes in any revised Agreement by your continued use of the App after the date such revised Agreement is posted.

III. RESTRICTIONS ON WHO CAN USE THE APP

In order to download, install, access or use the App, you must (a) be eighteen (18) years of age or older.

All users who are minors in the jurisdiction in which they reside (generally under the age of 18) must have the permission of, and be directly supervised by, their parent or guardian to use the App, so if you are between the ages of thirteen (13) and seventeen (17) years and you wish to use download, install, access or use the App, before doing so you must: (a) assure and confirm (if needed) that your parent or guardian have read and agree (get your parent or guardian’s consent) to this Agreement prior to you using the App; (b) have the power to enter a binding contract with us and not be barred from doing so under any applicable laws.

Parents and guardians must directly supervise any use of the App by minors.

Any person under the age of thirteen (13) years is not permitted to download, install, access or use the App.

You affirm that you are either more than eighteen 18 years of age, or an emancipated minor, or possess legal parental or guardian consent, and are fully able and competent to enter into the terms, conditions, obligations, affirmations, representations, and warranties set forth in this Agreement, and to abide by and comply with this Agreement.

IV. GENERAL TERMS

The App is a utility program designed to enhance your device experience. The App allows to scan any types of document to high quality PDF or JPEG; to save and store any scan copies of documents on your mobile devices; to share your scans via email; upload scanned documents to cloud services like box, Evernote or Google Drive (see the full performance list on the App’s page on itunes.apple.com). All documents shall be stored locally on your device and shall never be sent to any third-party unless you export them to other apps or devices by means of the App.

The App is intended only for your personal non-commercial use. You shall use the App only for the purposes, mentioned above.

V. PRIVACY POLICY

Your privacy is very important to us. Accordingly, we have developed the Privacy Policy in order for you to understand how we process, use and store information including personal data. Access to the App and use of the Services is subject to the Privacy Policy. By accessing the App and by continuing to use the Services, you are deemed to have accepted the Privacy Policy, and in particular, you are deemed to have acknowledged the ways we process your information as well as appropriate legal grounds for processing described in the Privacy Policy. We reserve the right to amend the Privacy Policy from time to time. If you disagree with any part of the Privacy Policy, you must immediately stop using the App and Services. Please read our Privacy Policy carefully.

VI. END USER LICENSE AGREEMENT

By using the App, you undertake to respect our intellectual rights (intellectual rights related to the App’s source code, UI/UX design, content material, copyright and trademarks, hereinafter referred to as the “Intellectual Property Rights”) as well as those owned by third parties.

As long as you keep using the App, we you a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable non-sublicensable, non-assignable and revocable license to access and use the App pursuant to this Agreement on any Apple-branded products that you own or control except that the App may be accessed and used by other accounts associated with you via Family Sharing or volume purchasing (the “License”).

The source code, design and content, including information, photographs, illustrations, artwork and other graphic materials, sounds, music or video (hereinafter – the “works”) as well as names, logos and trademarks (hereinafter – “means of individualization”) within the App are protected by copyright laws and other relevant laws and/or international treaties, and belong to us and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, as the case may be.

In the event of any third party claim that your possession and use of the App infringes that third party’s intellectual property rights, Apple will not be responsible for the investigation, defense, settlement and discharge of any such intellectual property infringement claim.

These works and means of individualization may not be copied, reproduced, retransmitted, distributed, disseminated, sold, published, broadcasted or circulated whether in whole or in part, unless expressly permitted by us and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, as the case may be.

All rights, title and interest in and to the App and its content, works and means of individualization as well as its functionalities (1) are the exclusive property of We and/or our partners and/or contracted third parties, (2) are protected by the applicable international and national legal provisions, and (3) are under no circumstances transferred (assigned) to you in full or in part within the context of the license herewithin.

We will not hesitate to take legal action against any unauthorized use of our trademarks, names or symbols to protect and restore our rights. All rights not expressly ed herein are reserved. Other product and company names mentioned herein may also be the trademarks of their respective owners.

VII. PROHIBITED BEHAVIOUR

You agree not to use the App in any way that:

is unlawful, illegal or unauthorized;

is defamatory of any other person;

is obscene or offensive;

infringes any copyright, right or trademark of any other person;

advocates, promotes or assists any unlawful act such as (by way of example only) copyright infringement or computer misuse.

You shall not make the App available to any third parties. In addition, you shall not modify, translate into other languages, reverse engineer, decompile, disassemble or otherwise derivative works from the App or any documentation concerning the App.

You shall not transfer, lend, rent, lease, distribute the App, or use it for providing services to a third party, or any rights to the App or any documentation concerning the App to a third party.

Misuse of any trademarks or any other content displayed on the App is prohibited.

You shall not copy and/or duplicate and/or distribute and/or publish and/or use any content in the App, directly or indirectly, by way of a violation of our Intellectual Property Rights.

Moreover, you shall not make any attempts to use the App or part thereof for malicious intentions.

Also we are not responsible for the way you use the App.

It is clarified that we may adopt, against a user who violated the present Agreement, any legal measures at our disposal pursuant to the applicable laws.

All disputes arising from the usage of the App, shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the United States of America, and shall be submitted to the sole jurisdiction of the competent courts of New York, New York, the United States of America.

VIII. AVAILABILITY OF THE APP, SECURITY AND ACCURACY

In order to use the App, you are required to have a compatible mobile phone or tablet, and internet access. However, please note that we offer you widgets that save translations and allow you to access them later in offline mode.

The App is available for downloading and installing on handheld compatible mobile devices running Apple iOS Operating System 11.0 with minimum system requirements.

We do not warrant that the App will be compatible with all hardware and software which you may use.

We make no warranty that your access to the App will be uninterrupted, timely or error-free. Neither does Apple have an obligation whatsoever to furnish any maintenance and support services with respect to the App.

You acknowledge the App is provided via the internet and mobile networks and so the quality and availability of the App may be affected by factors outside our reasonable control.

The version of the App may be upgraded from time to time to add support for new functions and services.

We may change or update the App and anything described in it without noticing you. If the need arises, we may suspend access to the App, or close it indefinitely.

You also warrant that any information that you submit to us is true, accurate and complete, and you agree to keep it actual at all times.

You can discontinue using our Services at any time by choosing the relevant option in your iTunes Account Settings. If you decide not to use the App for any reason you should uninstall the App.

IX. CHARGES

The App is provided on a paid basis. You will need to pay a one-time fee of $14.99 in order to download the App. Once you download the App, you will get access to all its features.

Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

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2020-04-20

One World: Together At Home にもやっぱり噛みつくのかな

昨日4月19日WHOレディー・ガガが開催して世界中の著名な音楽アーティストが出演した『One World: Together At Home』なる催しがオンラインで行われていた。

それで思い出したのは

安全から絵だけ描いて感動ポルノにしないで」医療従事者が絵描き激怒#GratefulForTheHeros絵 https://togetter.com/li/1495682

だ。

One World: Together At Home』も「医療従事者を称え、支援することを目的に」という趣旨があったが、絵描きに怒っていた人たちはこれにも噛みつくのだろうか?

それとも世界アーティスト権威の前ではだんまりなのか?

あるいは、こうした著名アーティスト寄付や、コンテンツで人々を家に留めるという形で医療に対して貢献しているからという理由で”アリ”なのか?

じゃあ金を持っている人気漫画家寄付作品無料公開と同時に応援イラストを描いたらそれは”アリ”になるのか?

ちょっと気になった。

2020-04-16

That’s one small step for a man, one corona leap for mankind.

外に踏み出ることでの影響力を考えよう

2020-04-14

新型コロナウイルス医師 Sandro Giannini の発見から見えた希望の光(英訳

こちらの記事英訳です。

Coronavirus: speranze dalla scoperta di Sandro Giannini, 10 Aprile, 2020

https://buongiornonews.it/coronavirus-una-speranza-dalla-scoperta-del-prof-giannini/

1) 英訳Google translate を利用させて頂きました)

Coronavirus: hopes from the discovery of Sandro Giannini

10 April, 2020

Bologna - From social media comes good news about the Coronavirus, perhaps decisive, which has scientific foundations and is disseminated by an authoritative doctor from Rizzoli of Bologna, Sandro Giannini. His is a highly qualified curriculum: Full Professor of Orthopedics and Traumatology and of Physical Medicine at the University of Bologna since 1989, director of Clinic I at the Rizzoli Orthopedic Institute and of the Gait Analysis Laboratory, partner in European projects and in national and international research programs, author of more than 600 presentations at national and international conferences and more than 400 articles in Science Citation Index journals. His message gives great hope. Let's read:

“I don't want to seem overwhelming to you, but I think I've demonstrated the cause of coronavirus lethality. Only at Blessed Matthew are there 2 cardiologists who turn over 150 beds to do echocardium with enormous effort and one is me. Terrible fatigue! However, of what some supposed, but could not be sure, we now have the first data. People go to resuscitation for generalized venous thromboembolism, especially pulmonary. If this were the case, resuscitations and intubations are of no use because first of all you have to dissolve, indeed prevent these thromboembolisms. If you ventilate a lung where blood does not reach, it is not needed! In fact 9 out of 10 die. Because the problem is cardiovascular, not respiratory! It is venous microthrombosis, not pneumonia that determines fatality!

And why are thrombi formed? Because inflammation, as per school text, induces thrombosis through a complex but well-known pathophysiological mechanism. Then? Contrary to what scientific literature, especially Chinese, said until mid-March, it was that anti-inflammatories should not be used. Now in Italy anti-inflammatories and antibiotics are used (as in the influences) and the number of inpatients collapses. Many deaths, even 40 years old, had a history of high fever for 10-15 days that was not treated properly. Here inflammation has destroyed everything and prepared the ground for thrombi formation. Because the main problem is not the virus, but the immune reaction that destroys the cells where the virus enters. In fact, our COVID departments have never entered patients with rheumatoid arthritis! Because they make cortisone, a powerful anti-inflammatory!

Therefore, hospitalizations in Italy are decreasing and it is becoming a disease that is treated at home. By taking care of it well at home, you avoid not only hospitalization, but also the thrombotic risk. It was not easy to understand it because the signs of microembolism have faded, even at the echocardium. But this weekend I compared the data of the first 50 patients between those who breathe badly and those who don't and the situation appeared very clear. For me you can go back to playing and reopen the business. Quarantine street. Not now. But time to publish this data. Vaccine can arrive calmly. In America and other states that follow the scientific literature that calls for NOT to use anti-inflammatories is a disaster! Worse than in Italy. And they are old and cheap drugs. " (Associated Medias - Red / Giut)

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2) 原文:イタリア語

Coronavirus: speranze dalla scoperta di Sandro Giannini

10 Aprile, 2020

Bologna – Dai social arriva una buona notizia sul Coronavirus, forse risolutiva, che ha fondamenta scientifiche ed è diffusa da un medico autorevole del Rizzoli di Bologna, Sandro Giannini. Il suo è un curriculum molto qualificato: Professore ordinario di Ortopedia e Traumatologia e di Medicina Fisica presso l’Universidi Bologna dal 1989, direttore della Clinica I presso l’Istituto Ortopedico Rizzoli e del Laboratorio di Gait Analysis, partner in progetti europei e in programmi di ricerca nazionali e internazionali, autore di più di 600 presentazioni a congressi nazionali ed internazionali e più di 400 articoli in riviste Science Citation Index. Il suo messaggio dà grande speranza. Leggiamolo:

“Non vorrei sembrarvi eccessivo ma credo di aver dimostrato la causa della letalità del coronavirus. Solo al Beato Matteo ci sono 2 cardiologi che girano su 150 letti a fare ecocardio con enorme fatica e uno sono io. Fatica terribile! Però, di quello che alcuni supponevano, ma non ne riuscivano a essere sicuri, ora abbiamo i primi dati. La gente va in rianimazione per tromboembolia venosa generalizzata, soprattutto polmonare. Se così fosse, non servono a niente le rianimazioni e le intubazioni perché innanzitutto devi sciogliere, anzi prevenire queste tromboembolie. Se ventili un polmone dove il sangue non arriva, non serve! Infatti muoiono 9 su 10. Perche il problema è cardiovascolare, non respiratorio! Sono le microtrombosi venose, non la polmonite a determinare la fatalità!

E perché si formano trombi? Perche l’infiammazione come da testo scolastico, induce trombosi attraverso un meccanismo fisiopatologico complesso ma ben noto. Allora? Contrariamente a quello che la letteratura scientifica, soprattutto cinese, diceva fino a metà marzo era che non bisognava usare antinfiammatori. Ora in Italia si usano antinfiammatori e antibiotici (come nelle influenze) e il numero dei ricoverati crolla. Molti morti, anche di 40 anni, avevano una storia di febbre alta per 10-15 giorni non curata adeguatamente. Qui l’infiammazione ha distrutto tutto e preparato il terreno alla formazione dei trombi.  Perche il problema principale non è il virus, ma la reazione immunitaria che distrugge le cellule dove il virus entra. Infatti nei nostri reparti COVID non sono mai entrati malati di artrite reumatoide! Perche fanno il cortisone, un potente antinfiammatorio!

Pertanto, in Italia ospedalizzazioni si riducono e sta diventando una malattia che si cura a casa. Curandola bene a casa eviti non solo ospedalizzazione, ma anche il rischio trombotico.  Non era facile capirlo perché i segni della microembolia sono sfumati, anche all’ecocardio. Ma questo week end ho confrontato i dati dei primi 50 pazienti tra chi respira male e chi no e la situazione è apparsa molto chiara. Per me si può tornare a giocare e riaprire l’attività commerciali. Via quarantena. Non subito. Ma il tempo di pubblicare questi dati. Vaccino può arrivare con calma. In America e altri stati che seguono la letteratura scientifica che invita a NON usare antinfiammatori e’ un disastro! Peggio che in Italia. E sono farmaci vecchi e che costano pochi euro.”

(Associated MediasRed/Giut)

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3) 追記

これ↓はどうも違う、ということのようです。

FDAが、COVID-19への非ステロイド性抗炎症薬(NSAIDs)使用について助言, 2020年4月1日

https://www.cancerit.jp/65020.html

2020-04-12

ザ・ストロークスの新アルバム

本当にいいですね 原点回帰っぽさと4〜5枚目あたりの路線の複合って感じがあってサイコー

1.The Adults Are Talking

わりと静か目に始まる一曲目。静かとはいえシットリ系ではなく、むしろテンポはかなり早め。抑えた歌い方をしてる。

サビのリズム感は2ndの”I can’t win”を彷彿とさせる(わざと?)。あの曲すげえ好きなんだよなあ〜〜

ラストの辺のハイトーン〜ギターは5thとかの路線ぽい!

正直まだあんまり良さがわかってないけど、ストロークスは聴いてるうちに分かることが多いので期待!

2.Selfless

まず曲名がカッコいいよね

ネットリ系の暗い曲。全体に音は高めで4th以降の路線っぽい。

中盤以降の歌い上げ→yeah-eahの流れが気持ちいい!

その後にくる低音パートもいいっすね〜ジュリアンさんの声の良さがすごい

“No lessons learned“みたいな英語好きなんだよなあ カッコいい構文…

最後にイェーって二回言って終わるのもイイ!

3.Brooklyn Bridge to Chorus

明るいし音圧もあるしで結構華やかな感じの曲

One shot is never enough”って歌い出しが印象的でいいですねえ

“Break”って言って本当にブレイク(音が消えるやつ)が入るのもケレン味あっていいゾ〜

サビのギターもいい ギターボーカルの絡みはストロークス最大の魅力だから

途中で入る”on and on and…"もいい フックがある 

4.Bad Dicisions

先行配信もされていた名曲(PV意味不明ですごい https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5fbZTnZDvPA)

それこそ往時のストロークスを思わせる原点回帰型の曲で本当にいい

ドラムギターイントロを聴いただけでワクワク感がすごい これは凄いですよ

2フレーズめの"Moscow, 1972”からしてシビれるね 英語年号を歌うだけでカッコいいからずるいんだよな 「せんきゅうひゃくななじゅうにねん」と"Nineteen seventy-two"の差よ…

サビのわかりやすさもいい メイキンバッディシジョーンを繰り返すもんだから数回聞けば耳に残る しかも繰り返すだけじゃなくてyeahとかah-ohみたいなのを細かく混ぜて飽きさせない工夫もある この70〜80年代みたいな茶目っ気がいいんだよなあマジ ジュリアンさん………

Cメロギターの絡みがいいっすねえ 左と右で違うギターボーカルも加わってもう最高や

最後の方、わりとボソボソ歌った後突然でかい声でイェーイって繰り返す部分もいい

ラストラストギターアルペジオ(?)だけになって終わるのもいいですね

5.Eternal Summer

欧米人の夏観って多分日本人と違うんだよな(偏見)

夏、日本人にとってはクソ暑い最悪の季節ってイメージの方がでかい(偏見)けど、欧米人は最高のサマーシーズンみたいに感じてそう(偏見)でムカつく 

この曲もそういう欧米の夏って感じのチル感みたいなのがある ムカつく!お前も40度・湿度70%↑のサマー体験してみろ 二度とエターナルサマーなんて言えなくなるぞ

曲としては箸休め的な感じなのかな ゆったりしていますね 高音のギターが印象的 でもこういう曲こそ後から一番好きになったりするので怖い

6.At the Door

これも先行配信されてた!相変わらず全く意味不明PVですごい

これはわりとスローテンポで5thとか、あるいはソロプロジェクトとかのノリっぽい 壮大な感じですね

パイプオルガン的な音とか加工バリバリコーラスとかが入ってて面白い

7.Why Are Sunday’s So Depressing

この曲が暫定1位!

なんと言っても中盤以降のギターボーカルの絡みが本当にいい メロウな感じの歌とピロピロしたギターの相性が最高

ナナナナ…みたいな部分もあってナナナが好きな俺歓喜 ラララよりナナナのほうがテンション上がるよね

ラストにかけてのI stay hungry連呼がカッコ良すぎる そこからギターもまた良く、繰り返しのようでちょいちょい変化を入れてくるそのバランスが最高

あと締め方もいい!曲の良さの5割は締め方で決まるからな フェードアウト晩節を汚しウンコ曲となることも多い中この締め方は本当にいい 不自然さ・唐突さがないのにサッパリ感もある最高の終わり方 100点

Not the Same Anymore”

また暗い感じだ 

ゆっくり歌いながらだんだんテンションを上げていく感じの曲で、各番のラストあたりはジュリアンさんのデカい声が堪能できる ええ声してんなあ!

渋い曲です

9.Ode to the mets

イントロが変!

またゆっくりした感じの曲 ストロークスも歳とって落ち着いたということか

ロウで心地よい感じでラストにいいですね とは言いつつもけっこう力の入ったボーカルでもあり素敵

ジュリアンさんはガーっと歌ってもあんまりうるさくないからすごい 声がいい

ラストの畳み掛けもいいっすねえ また歌詞ちゃんと読もう…

2020-04-09

ONE STEP FROM EDEN楽しい

ロックマンエグゼライクなの想像してたら全然違ったけど、ずっとプレイしてるとローグライクみたいで毎回違うシチュエーションで戦えるの楽しい

しばらく飽きそうにない

2020-04-05

Cadence's one step from eden 誰か作ってください

2020-04-04

この増田ってさあ・・・

このエントリは一個一個がどうというより

全体がものすごく受身だよね。

一番どうかと思うのがここ。


1.姫並みの受身ぶり

・しっかり見極めて早めに告白

この段階で注意することはぶっちゃけこの1点のみ。あとは全部おまけと思ってもらっていい。

自分未来パートナーとしての素質があるかどうか、フィーリングが合うかどうかを判断しつつ、自分アピールしなくてはならない。

結婚相談所を使っている場合、初回のデートから付き合うまでのデート回数目安は約3回だそう。

初めましてがお茶だとして、1,2回目のデート仕事終わりに居酒屋ご飯

3回目のデート休日半日くらいのお外デート気持ちを伝える、みたいな感じ。

てめえからはいかないの?

増田個人としては初めて会ってから告白まで3週間以内がベスト

というのも、あまりちんたらしてると他の男性に取られちゃうから

これはお互い様だけど、婚活市場早い者勝ち

女性一般的に熱いうちに打たないとすーっと冷めちゃうよ。

なにこいつお姫様なの?



2.落下すんな

紳士的な振る舞い

エスカレーターでは男性が下(女性が落ちても支えられるように)、

こういうのホテルマン教育とかではあるんだけど

お前ほんとにエスカレーターで落下することあるわけ?

マジでそういう不安が有るなら靴が合ってないから柔らかいスニーカー履いていけや

デート中に落下しないっていうのはオシャレとかより人としてそれ以前のとこにあるから

身体不安があるのでこの靴です」って説明してそれで変な態度になる男は合わないってことで切ればいいよ。

落下してから人に支えてもらおうと思うんじゃねえよあぶねえよ。

エスカレーターすら落下せずに乗れないような人間自覚を持ってエレベーターに乗れ。

マジで脚悪い人とかはみんなそうしてるから



3.女性自立の敵

こういう奴に対して進歩派とかフェミニズムアングルでの抗議が入ってないのはがっかりちゃうよね。

カスでしょこういう奴。

男にお姫様扱いや落下した時のキャッチを求めるっていうのは

自分が一人前の人間として立つことを放棄してるってことなんだよ。

柔らかい椅子には尻が痛いほうが座ればいんだよ。

お前に強めの痔があるならソファはお前のものだし相手の男の痔のほうがすげえならソファは譲ってやれよ。

「そうじゃなくて一律ソファに座らせてもらえない女はかわいそうなの!」ってお前マナー講師かよ。


4.こいつほんとに男慣れしてるんだろうか?

香水はつけすぎなければどんなものでも良し。増田が好きなのはBLEU de CHANELとかカルバンクラインoneとか。

2ブロックもチャラついた印象を受けるので、この半年我慢だ…と思って普通を目指してほしい。

シャネル香水つけてる男なんてかなり少ないと思うけどそんなことは当然として求めておきながら

ツーブロックを「チャラついてる」ってなんなの一体。

ツーブロックは単に楽だし、日本人は頭の鉢が広がりがちだからまりがいいんだよ。

だって日本人なら側頭部のボリュームを抑える工夫のある髪型に切ってくれてると思うぞ。


こいつの周りにいる男がどんななのかまじめに疑問になるんだよな。

すっごいエスコート完璧香水つけてるけど1000円カットの男ってどういう人物なのかマジでからないのです。

少女漫画とか変な女性誌の記事を読み過ぎてるけどリアルの男と接した経験が少ない人の肥大した妄想のように見えるのですが。


私が出会った人たちはほとんど皆スマートエスコートしてくれたんだけど、これも知らないと出来ないものかと思うので、一応。

俺はお前の言ってるようなことは出来ないです。

いや出来るけど、それ全部やったら絶対「なにこいつ」って思われるだろうから恥ずかしくて出来ない。

普通の女は普通の男がそんなホテルマン少女小説王子様のような振る舞いしてきたら「なにこいつ」って思うと思うんだ。

それでいて頭が千円カットだろ?

いやー、わかんねーっす。


告白なんか高校生がするもの、と思うかもしれないけど、ステップアップしたい旨を明確に示すと女性も迷わないし、今後の心算ができるのでストレスフリーです。

2、3回目のデートの終盤、できればあんまりヤガヤしていない場所(公園のベンチとか、間接照明がいい感じのバーとか)がいいんじゃないですか。

増田おすすめ品川駅から港南口の方へまっすぐ行ったところにある高浜運河運河とは言え、ぱっと見は普通の川。

品川駅を背にして右手に進むとT.Y HARBORが見えて来るんだけど、ライトアップされていて綺麗。

桜の季節は運河沿いに桜が結構咲いてるので綺麗だし、海が近くて風がびゅんびゅん吹いてるからしれっと手を繋げるよ。

これとかさあ、

最近読んだヤングジャンプの「かぐや様は告らせたい」ってマンガ

クールな早坂さん(クールで有能だけど男女交際経験がなく少女趣味妄想が嵩じている)が立案したデートプランそのまんまなんだよね。

やたらディテール細かくて道やタイミング風向きまで指定してくる全てを机上で練った感満点のデートプラン

あの漫画を読んでないと伝わらないんだけど。

やっぱりこの増田ってさあ・・・

anond:20200402213732


追記

フェミニズムアングルでの抗議が入ってないのはがっかりちゃうよね。』怒りたきゃお前がお前の目線で怒れよ。フェミにキレてる場合があったら自分言葉で怒ればいいだろ。こっち見んな気持ち悪い。

いやいやいや

俺は俺の目線キッチリ怒っただろ。

何を読んでるねんきみは。

俺は別に俺の怒りをフェミニストの皆さんに代行させるような依頼心なんか一ミリもないですよ。

自分言葉キッチリ書きました。この通り。


かにネットには何故か「お前のミッションだろ」ってことを人にやらそうとしてくる奴がいてそういうのへのムカつきは俺も日頃持ってるけど

俺はちゃん自分目線自分言葉で詰めただろ。

何を読んでるんだマジで

そのうえでフェミニストはこういうのには動かないんですねーって言ったの。

当てこすりはしたけど依頼心なんか持ってねえだろ。


しろフェミニストの人達のほうがそうやって

てめえの問題意識オタク押し付けてくることあるんですよ?

https://anond.hatelabo.jp/20191130151346

とか俺が書いた奴だから読んでくれ。

「てめえでやれ」としか言いようがない案件


俺はアルテイシアさんとちがって自分目線の分、自分立場からの分は自分でやってるでしょ。

一緒にしないでくれ。

そのうえで、「フェミニストの人達の分があるんじゃないですか?」と疑問感じただけよ。

フェミニズム立場からいってもこんなお姫自意識女はしばいたほうがいいんじゃないのかねと。



追記

エスカレーターから落ちる、はそのままの意味じゃなくて、守ってる感を出すってことだろ。

それこそマナー講師やんけ。

「ハンコの傾きで上司への尊重表現しましょう」やんけ。

なにそのやってる感。


ていうか落下する予定がなくてあくまポーズの話って線で行くなら

しろ対等な付き合いや男女平等希求する現代においては

そういう「守る・守られるポーズ」は忌避していくべきものでは?


実際に筋力が必要な所では肉体的に強いほうが担当するとしても

そうじゃない場面でポーズとして「守ってる感」なんてむしろ時代に逆行するカフチョーセーでは?

これもどっちかってとフェミニスト姉貴に聞きたいことなんだよなあ。


個人的にはそんなもんどっちでもいいのであって骨惜しみや意地悪で言ってる訳じゃないのは理解して欲しい。

でも自分もある程度フェミニズムが行き渡る社会で生育したものとして、

そんな男女不平等時代騎士道的な振る舞いを現代にすることに抵抗があるんだ。

重いものを持つよっていうのは実利だから抵抗感はないんだけど

守ってる感を出すポーズって、すごい抵抗感あるんだが。ぶっちゃけ恥ずかしい。

落下しないタイプの女からしても「落下なんかしねーのにポーズでやってる感出してきてうぜーな」ってならんの?

婚活している全女性に気をつけていただきたいこと

自分もいい歳になったので結婚したいと思ったんだけど、気付いたら周りの適齢期の女の人は既に結婚しているか彼氏がいるという状態だった。

そこで結婚相談所に登録して数ヶ月活動してみたので、所感というか婚活している女性に気をつけていただきたい事がいくつかあったのでここに投下してみる。

増田スペック

・29歳

・男

会社員年収500万

・顔は良く言えばアナウンサー顔、悪く言えば量産型

共働き希望

・初婚

活動実績

ゼクシィ縁結びカウンターという結婚相談所を利用した。

利用期間は年明けから始めたから3ヶ月くらい。

増田自分問題は"出会いがない"だけで、出会いさえあれば自力でなんとかできる(と信じたい)と認識していたので一番安いプラン(月額約1万円)で登録した。

この人となら結婚してもいいかも、と思える人に出会うまで10人くらいとお会いした。

そこで増田女性に対して"ここを気をつけたらもっと良いのになぁ"と思ったところを書いてみる。

完全に自分のことは棚に上げているのでそこんとこよろしく

■全体的な話

清潔感

具体的には【服装】【髪型】【匂い】に気をつけて。

洋服ブランドである必要はないけど、【くたっとしていない】【過度なシワがない】【自分の体のサイズに合ってるスーツ】でも着ておけば間違いない。

たとえ待ち合わせが休みの日であっても、スーツを着ておけば間違いない。

相手(男性)から「お休みの日もスーツなんですか」と聞かれたら、「今日たまたま出社する用事があって」と言ってもいいだろうし、「初めてお会いするのでスーツがいいかなと思って…」と正直に言っても全く問題ない。

間違ってもジーパンパーカーとか、カジュアルすぎる格好で来たりしないでほしい。

そういうオフの日の服は、もっと仲良くなってから披露すれば良いし、そういう服で来た時点で『あ、この人TPOとか考えないタイプの人か』と思ってしまう。

あと靴もヒールが擦り減っていたり、くったくただとみすぼらしいよ。

髪型清潔感が出ていれば何でもいいけど、男性ウケがいいのは

黒髪】【ロング】【軽めのヘアセット】 だと思う。

いい歳こいて茶髪は不潔な感じがするし、がっちりヘアセットしているとなんかキモい

パーマなんかもチャラついた印象を受けるので、この半年我慢だ…と思って普通を目指してほしい。

1回6000円もする美容室なんて行かなくていいから、1000円カットに月1回行けば十分。

匂いはほんとに!!!一番大事!!!うそ、顔と年収の次に大事!!!!!

仕事終わりとか夏とか梅雨の時期とかは特に念入りにケアしてほしい。

自分では気付きにくいし、周りの人は気を遣って誰も指摘してくれないか自覚してない人多いけど、クサい臭いほど印象に残るものはない。

気をつけるべきは【ワキガ】【洋服の生乾き臭】【口臭】【プラスアルファケア】の4つ。

まず、自分の耳垢がねっちょりタイプの人はワキガ確定だから、すぐさま手術してこい。軽いワキガでも手術一択

というか全ての人に、友達とか職場の先輩とか弟とか誰でも良いか他人に「正直に言って欲しいんだけど、わたし体臭気になる?」って聞いて欲しい。

スーツを定期的にクリーニングに出していない人は、出す。

ブラウス私服は自宅で洗濯している人も多いと思うけど、家庭用洗濯機は雑菌が増えやすいから、脱水が終わったらすぐさま外干しする事を徹底しよう。

洗剤は粉でも液体でも、洗面器にぬるま湯〜お湯を張ってそこで溶かしてから洗濯機に入れる。

洗剤が衣類に残ってるとそこから雑菌も繁殖やすくクサくなりやすい。

自動のやつを使っている貴族はこういう小回りが利かないけど、きっと洗剤残りなく洗ってくれるんでしょう。いいなぁ。

口臭に関しては、定期的に歯医者さんに行って虫歯を治してもらったり、歯石を取ってもらったりする。

とくに虫歯歯肉炎ってまじで臭いからね…ほんとお願い…

デートの前には歯磨きをして、待ち合わせの直前にミンティアを口にいれておけば完璧です。

プラスαの匂いケアについて

デオドラント絶対塗る。朝着替える前にデオウとかのクリームタイプを脇に適量塗ろう。

あとはカバンの中にギャッツビーのボディーシートを忍ばせておく。仕事が終わったらトイレで顔や耳の裏、首を拭いた後、可能であれば脇もふきふきしてね。

香水はつけすぎなければどんなものでも良し。増田が好きなのはBLEU de CHANELとかカルバンクラインoneとか。

2プッシュだとつけすぎ。1プッシュをワイシャツを着る前に腹筋付近に30cm離してつけるとか、コートを着る前に1プッシュ空中にかけて、その霧の中をくぐる程度で十分。

段々自分では香らなくなってくるけど、周りの人には十分香ってるから心配しないで。

・急ぎすぎない

結婚相談所に登録しているし焦る気持ちも分からなくないけど、一つ一つの動作ちょっと落ち着いてやると良い。

具体的には歩く、飲み物を飲む、話すといった一つ一つの行動のスピード男性に合わせる。

特に話すスピードゆっくりの方が声をセクシーだと感じやすい気がする(増田フェチかもしれない)。

・おしとやかな振る舞い

俺が出会った人たちはほとんど皆スマートエスコートしてくれたんだけど、これも知らないと出来ないものかと思うので、一応。

車道側を歩く、エスカレーターでは女性が下(男性が落ちても支えられるように)、重い荷物は持ってあげる、女性がドアを開けて男性に先に入らせる、男性に奥またはソファの席をお勧めする、帰りは駅の改札まで送る、などなど。

増田別にこれをやらない女はゴミ!とは思わないけど、飲食店で当然のように彼女らしき人がソファ席にどっかり座ってるのとか見ると彼氏可哀想…と思ってしまうのは事実

そして何よりやってくれたらすごく嬉しい気持ちになる。

■初めまして〜初回のデート

ゼクシィ縁結びカウンターで言うところのFC(ファーストコンタクト)からTD(トライアルデート)の初期段階の話。

どこかの増田も書いていたけど、初対面では"減点されない事"が重要

ゼクシィのお姉さん曰く、FC後の回答は"迷ったらGO"するようにアドバイスしているとのこと。

まり相手(男性)に『特別良くもないけど悪くもなかった』という印象を抱かせればとりあえず初回はクリアということになる。

清潔感は上で述べた通り。初回のデートくらいまではスーツでいい。

・初めて相手に会う前にプロフィールさらっと読んでおく。

名前趣味出身地あたりは覚えておこう。全部覚える必要はない、むしろ全部暗記してたら引く

・2回目に会う時にはプロフィール見直して初回で聞けなかった事について聞いてもいいし、初回で盛り上がった話をさらに膨らませてもいい。

・基本中の基本だけど、次のデートの仮約束をしておく。最近エスニックにハマってるんですよ〜→今度美味しい所に連れて行きますよ! という黄金ルート

・終わりが良ければ全てのミス挽回できるので、しっかり印象付ける。

今日は○○さんとお話できてとても楽しかったです。もしよかったら次回はエスニックに行きましょう!気をつけて帰ってくださいね。」みたいな。

■2回目のデート〜付き合うまで

・しっかり見極めて早めに告白

この段階で注意することはぶっちゃけこの1点のみ。あとは全部おまけと思ってもらっていい。

自分未来パートナーとしての素質があるかどうか、フィーリングが合うかどうかを判断しつつ、自分アピールしなくてはならない。

結婚相談所を使っている場合、初回のデートから付き合うまでのデート回数目安は約3回だそう。

初めましてがお茶だとして、1,2回目のデート仕事終わりに居酒屋ご飯

3回目のデート休日半日くらいのお外デート気持ちを伝える、みたいな感じ。

増田個人としては初めて会ってから告白まで3週間以内がベスト

というのも、あまりちんたらしてると他の女性に取られちゃうから

これはお互い様だけど、婚活市場早い者勝ち

男性一般的に熱いうちに打たないとすーっと冷めちゃうよ。

私服で会う機会を作る

上の流れでいう、3回目のデート付近の話なんだけど、そろそろ戦闘服じゃない普段着を見せてもいいかな。

カジュアル目なデートプランニングして男性にも婚活用じゃないカジュアルな服を着て来てもらう。

例えば、水族館とか動物園とかガーデンパーク的なところとか。ちょっと歩くから動きやす服装で来てね!と言えば自ずとカジュアルダウンしてくるよ。

女性側も白Tシャツに黒いスカート、チェックのシャツをはおればいいんじゃないかな。

私服全然持ってないよっていう男性はこれを機に買いに行こう。

Googleで「水族館デート 女性 服装」と検索して、気に入ったコーディネートをまるっと買えばいいよ。

女性物の洋服って結構高いけど、その分長持ちしたり着回ししやすいから、3-5万出費するつもりでマルイ伊勢丹へ行くべし。

・手を繋ぐ

2回目か、3回目のデートで手を繋いでみてほしい。

嫌いな相手とは何回もデートしないから2、3回目だとかなり高い成功率が見込める。

夜ご飯を食べて駅まで送る帰り道とか、階段を降りる時とかにはい、」と手を出されるとついつい繋いじゃうよ。

告白してOKをもらえるかどうかの目安になるから笑顔さらっと済ませよう。

告白する

自分気持ちが固まって、この人いいなと思ったらいわゆる告白をしようね。

告白なんか高校生がするもの、と思うかもしれないけど、ステップアップしたい旨を明確に示すと男性も迷わないし、今後の心算ができるのでストレスフリーです。

2、3回目のデートの終盤、できればあんまりヤガヤしていない場所(公園のベンチとか、間接照明がいい感じのバーとか)がいいんじゃないですか。

増田おすすめ品川駅から港南口の方へまっすぐ行ったところにある高浜運河運河とは言え、ぱっと見は普通の川。

品川駅を背にして右手に進むとT.Y HARBORが見えて来るんだけど、ライトアップされていて綺麗。

桜の季節は運河沿いに桜が結構咲いてるので綺麗だし、海が近くて風がびゅんびゅん吹いてるからしれっと手を繋げるよ。

大人の女性なら「○○さんとこうやって話してるととても落ち着くし、男性として惹かれています幸せしますのでお付き合いしていただけませんか。」とシンプル言葉で十分。

■付き合う〜婚約

ここでも大事なのはスケジュール管理だ。ほんとにスピーディーに決めていくのが良いと思う。

もちろん当人同士で話し合うのがベストだけど、女性の皆様に心得ていて欲しいのは、この戦いは結婚がゴール(とりあえず)であるということ。

そして、結婚相談所では規約で婚前交渉、つまり退会前のセックス(宿泊旅行同棲も含む)は禁止している事が多い。

ゼクシィでは禁止はしていないものの、婚前交渉運営側にバレた場合女性が休会という名の垢バンをくらうことが多いらしい。

まり、ちんたらお付き合いしていても目の前の棒は閉ざされたままなのだ。さっさと外堀を固めて退会する方向に持って行こう。

・まずは2人の仲を深める(セックス以外で)

お付き合いが始まったら、4-5回、期間にしたら2ヶ月くらいはプラトニック関係信頼関係を築こう。

休日映画を観に行ったり、レンタカーで美味しい物を食べにドライブしに行ったり、猫カフェで癒されたりする。

ここで女性の家に招くのはアリだが、手は出さないこと。

良い雰囲気ならキスまではありかな。

友達に会わせる

2人の仲が親しくなって来たら、自分友達に合わせようね。

例えば趣味草野球応援しに来てよ!と誘って、野球してる姿を見せる。野球が終わったら野球友達彼氏を紹介する。

そうすると自分の良いところもアピールできるし、男性共通の知人ができて安心する。

男性友達にも会わせてもらえたらなお良いね

プロポーズする

平均だと付き合ってから5ヶ月くらいらしい。

増田はまだプロポーズされてないからしらん。とにかくオーソドックスにかっこよく言ってくれるといいな。


酔った勢いで書いた。なんか書きたかった事ばーーーっと書けてすっきり。

明日デートが楽しみだ。

2020-04-02

婚活している全男性に気をつけていただきたい事

自分もいい歳になったので結婚したいと思ったんだけど、気付いたら周りの適齢期の男の人は既に結婚しているか彼女がいるという状態だった。

そこで結婚相談所に登録して数ヶ月活動してみたので、所感というか婚活している男性に気をつけていただきたい事がいくつかあったのでここに投下してみる。

増田スペック

・29歳

・女

会社員年収500万

・顔は良く言えばアナウンサー顔、悪く言えば量産型

共働き希望

・初婚



活動実績

ゼクシィ縁結びカウンターという結婚相談所を利用した。

利用期間は年明けから始めたから3ヶ月くらい。

増田自分問題は"出会いがない"だけで、出会いさえあれば自力でなんとかできる(と信じたい)と認識していたので一番安いプラン(月額約1万円)で登録した。

この人となら結婚してもいいかも、と思える人に出会うまで10人くらいとお会いした。

そこで増田男性に対して"ここを気をつけたらもっと良いのになぁ"と思ったところを書いてみる。

完全に自分のことは棚に上げているのでそこんとこよろしく



■全体的な話

清潔感

具体的には【服装】【髪型】【匂い】に気をつけて。

洋服ブランドである必要はないけど、【くたっとしていない】【過度なシワがない】【自分の体のサイズに合ってるスーツ】でも着ておけば間違いない。

たとえ待ち合わせが休みの日であっても、スーツを着ておけば間違いない。

相手(女性)から「お休みの日もスーツなんですか」と聞かれたら、「今日たまたま出社する用事があって」と言ってもいいだろうし、「初めてお会いするのでスーツがいいかなと思って…」と正直に言っても全く問題ない。

間違ってもジーパンパーカーとか、カジュアルすぎる格好で来たりしないでほしい。

そういうオフの日の服は、もっと仲良くなってから披露すれば良いし、そういう服で来た時点で『あ、この人TPOとか考えないタイプの人か』と思ってしまう。

あと靴もヒールが擦り減っていたり、くったくただとみすぼらしいよ。

髪型清潔感が出ていれば何でもいいけど、女性ウケがいいのは

黒髪】【短髪】【軽めのヘアセット】 だと思う。

いい歳こいて茶髪は不潔な感じがするし、がっちりヘアセットしているとなんかキモい

2ブロックもチャラついた印象を受けるので、この半年我慢だ…と思って普通を目指してほしい。

1回6000円もする美容室なんて行かなくていいから、1000円カットに月1回行けば十分。

匂いはほんとに!!!一番大事!!!うそ、顔と年収の次に大事!!!!!

仕事終わりとか夏とか梅雨の時期とかは特に念入りにケアしてほしい。

自分では気付きにくいし、周りの人は気を遣って誰も指摘してくれないか自覚してない人多いけど、クサい臭いほど印象に残るものはない。

気をつけるべきは【ワキガ】【洋服の生乾き臭】【口臭】【プラスアルファケア】の4つ。

まず、自分の耳垢がねっちょりタイプの人はワキガ確定だから、すぐさま手術してこい。軽いワキガでも手術一択

というか全ての人に、友達とか職場の先輩とか妹とか誰でも良いか他人に「正直に言って欲しいんだけど、おれの体臭気になる?」って聞いて欲しい。


スーツを定期的にクリーニングに出していない人は、出す。

ワイシャツ私服は自宅で洗濯している人も多いと思うけど、家庭用洗濯機は雑菌が増えやすいから、脱水が終わったらすぐさま外干しする事を徹底しよう。

洗剤は粉でも液体でも、洗面器にぬるま湯〜お湯を張ってそこで溶かしてから洗濯機に入れる。

洗剤が衣類に残ってるとそこから雑菌も繁殖やすくクサくなりやすい。

自動のやつを使っている貴族はこういう小回りが利かないけど、きっと洗剤残りなく洗ってくれるんでしょう。いいなぁ。

口臭に関しては、定期的に歯医者さんに行って虫歯を治してもらったり、歯石を取ってもらったりする。

とくに虫歯歯肉炎ってまじで臭いからね…ほんとお願い…

デートの前には歯磨きをして、待ち合わせの直前にミンティアを口にいれておけば完璧です。

プラスαの匂いケアについて

デオドラント絶対塗る。朝着替える前にデオウとかのクリームタイプを脇に適量塗ろう。

あとはカバンの中にギャッツビーのボディーシートを忍ばせておく。仕事が終わったらトイレで顔や耳の裏、首を拭いた後、可能であれば脇もふきふきしてね。

香水はつけすぎなければどんなものでも良し。増田が好きなのはBLEU de CHANELとかカルバンクラインoneとか。

2プッシュだとつけすぎ。1プッシュをワイシャツを着る前に腹筋付近に30cm離してつけるとか、コートを着る前に1プッシュ空中にかけて、その霧の中をくぐる程度で十分。

段々自分では香らなくなってくるけど、周りの人には十分香ってるから心配しないで。



・急ぎすぎない

結婚相談所に登録しているし焦る気持ちも分からなくないけど、一つ一つの動作ちょっと落ち着いてやると良い。

具体的には歩く、飲み物を飲む、話すといった一つ一つの行動のスピード女性に合わせる。

特に話すスピードゆっくりの方が男の人の低い声をセクシーだと感じやすい気がする(増田フェチかもしれない)。



紳士的な振る舞い

私が出会った人たちはほとんど皆スマートエスコートしてくれたんだけど、これも知らないと出来ないものかと思うので、一応。

車道側を歩く、エスカレーターでは男性が下(女性が落ちても支えられるように)、重い荷物は持ってあげる、男性がドアを開けて女性に先に入らせる、女性に奥またはソファの席をお勧めする、帰りは駅の改札まで送る、などなど。

増田別にこれをやらない男はゴミ!とは思わないけど、飲食店で当然のように彼氏らしき人がソファ席にどっかり座ってるのとか見ると彼女可哀想…と思ってしまうのは事実

そして何よりやってくれたらすごく嬉しい気持ちになる。



■初めまして〜初回のデート

ゼクシィ縁結びカウンターで言うところのFC(ファーストコンタクト)からTD(トライアルデート)の初期段階の話。

どこかの増田も書いていたけど、初対面では"減点されない事"が重要

ゼクシィのお姉さん曰く、FC後の回答は"迷ったらGO"するようにアドバイスしているとのこと。

まり相手(女性)に『特別良くもないけど悪くもなかった』という印象を抱かせればとりあえず初回はクリアということになる。

清潔感は上で述べた通り。初回のデートくらいまではスーツでいい。

・初めて相手に会う前にプロフィールさらっと読んでおく。

名前趣味出身地あたりは覚えておこう。全部覚える必要はない、むしろ全部暗記してたら引く

・2回目に会う時にはプロフィール見直して初回で聞けなかった事について聞いてもいいし、初回で盛り上がった話をさらに膨らませてもいい。

・基本中の基本だけど、次のデートの仮約束をしておく。最近エスニックにハマってるんですよ〜→今度美味しい所に連れて行きますよ! という黄金ルート

・終わりが良ければ全てのミス挽回できるので、しっかり印象付ける。

今日は○○さんとお話できてとても楽しかったです。もしよかったら次回はエスニックに行きましょう!気をつけて帰ってくださいね。」みたいな。


■2回目のデート〜付き合うまで

・しっかり見極めて早めに告白

この段階で注意することはぶっちゃけこの1点のみ。あとは全部おまけと思ってもらっていい。

自分未来パートナーとしての素質があるかどうか、フィーリングが合うかどうかを判断しつつ、自分アピールしなくてはならない。

結婚相談所を使っている場合、初回のデートから付き合うまでのデート回数目安は約3回だそう。

初めましてがお茶だとして、1,2回目のデート仕事終わりに居酒屋ご飯

3回目のデート休日半日くらいのお外デート気持ちを伝える、みたいな感じ。

増田個人としては初めて会ってから告白まで3週間以内がベスト

というのも、あまりちんたらしてると他の男性に取られちゃうから

これはお互い様だけど、婚活市場早い者勝ち

女性一般的に熱いうちに打たないとすーっと冷めちゃうよ。

私服で会う機会を作る

上の流れでいう、3回目のデート付近の話なんだけど、そろそろ戦闘服じゃない普段着を見せてもいいかな。

カジュアル目なデートプランニングして、女性にも婚活用じゃないカジュアルな服を着て来てもらう。

例えば、水族館とか動物園とかガーデンパーク的なところとか。ちょっと歩くから動きやす服装で来てね!と言えば自ずとカジュアルダウンしてくるよ。

男性側も白Tシャツに黒いスボン、チェックのシャツをはおればいいんじゃないかな。

私服全然持ってないよっていう男性はこれを機に買いに行こう。

Googleで「水族館デート 男性 服装」と検索して、気に入ったコーディネートをまるっと買えばいいよ。

男性物の洋服って結構高いけど、その分長持ちしたり着回ししやすいから、3-5万出費するつもりでマルイ伊勢丹へ行くべし。

・手を繋ぐ

2回目か、3回目のデートで手を繋いでみてほしい。

嫌いな相手とは何回もデートしないから2、3回目だとかなり高い成功率が見込める。

夜ご飯を食べて駅まで送る帰り道とか、階段を降りる時とかにはい、」と手を出されるとついつい繋いじゃうよ。

告白してOKをもらえるかどうかの目安になるから笑顔さらっと済ませよう。

告白する

自分気持ちが固まって、この人いいなと思ったらいわゆる告白をしようね。

告白なんか高校生がするもの、と思うかもしれないけど、ステップアップしたい旨を明確に示すと女性も迷わないし、今後の心算ができるのでストレスフリーです。

2、3回目のデートの終盤、できればあんまりヤガヤしていない場所(公園のベンチとか、間接照明がいい感じのバーとか)がいいんじゃないですか。

増田おすすめ品川駅から港南口の方へまっすぐ行ったところにある高浜運河運河とは言え、ぱっと見は普通の川。

品川駅を背にして右手に進むとT.Y HARBORが見えて来るんだけど、ライトアップされていて綺麗。

桜の季節は運河沿いに桜が結構咲いてるので綺麗だし、海が近くて風がびゅんびゅん吹いてるからしれっと手を繋げるよ。

大人男性なら「○○さんとこうやって話してるととても落ち着くし、女性として惹かれています幸せしますのでお付き合いしていただけませんか。」とシンプル言葉で十分。



■付き合う〜婚約

ここでも大事なのはスケジュール管理だ。ほんとにスピーディーに決めていくのが良いと思う。

もちろん当人同士で話し合うのがベストだけど、男性の皆様に心得ていて欲しいのは、この戦いは結婚がゴール(とりあえず)であるということ。

そして、結婚相談所では規約で婚前交渉、つまり退会前のセックス(宿泊旅行同棲も含む)は禁止している事が多い。

ゼクシィでは禁止はしていないものの、婚前交渉運営側にバレた場合男性が休会という名の垢バンをくらうことが多いらしい。

まり、ちんたらお付き合いしていても目の前の股は閉ざされたままなのだ。さっさと外堀を固めて退会する方向に持って行こう。

・まずは2人の仲を深める(セックス以外で)

お付き合いが始まったら、4-5回、期間にしたら2ヶ月くらいはプラトニック関係信頼関係を築こう。

休日映画を観に行ったり、レンタカーで美味しい物を食べにドライブしに行ったり、猫カフェで癒されたりする。

ここで男性の家に招くのはアリだが、手は出さないこと。

良い雰囲気ならキスまではありかな。

友達に会わせる

2人の仲が親しくなって来たら、自分友達に合わせようね。

例えば趣味草野球応援しに来てよ!と誘って、野球してる姿を見せる。野球が終わったら野球友達彼女を紹介する。

そうすると自分の良いところもアピールできるし、女性共通の知人ができて安心する。

女性友達にも会わせてもらえたらなお良いね

プロポーズする

平均だと付き合ってから5ヶ月くらいらしい。

増田はまだプロポーズされてないからしらん。とにかくオーソドックスにかっこよく言ってくれるといいな。




酔った勢いで書いた。なんか書きたかった事ばーーーっと書けてすっきり。

明日デートが楽しみだ。

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