https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhJ3nnUxfNE
1. See the Male Ego as Your Friend, Not Your Foe
2. Talk Like a Peer, Not a Parent
3. Don't Interrogate And Stop Leading the Witness
4. Let Him Solve It His Way And Demand Accountability
5. Fix Your Problem In The Light of the Day, Not the Darkness of the Night